Hey Mummas.
I had my baby girl in May, me and her dad was never together, I was on the depo injection and fell pregnant, we have been friends for 2/3 years, but got close but didn’t take it any more further then “friends with benefits” he also told me he never wanted a relationship but always let’s say begged to see me, anyway…. Yesterday he face timed me and our daughter, things were going great, until I said want me to drop Lily off to see you for a bit, and he said his flat is a mess and tried making every excuse under the sun, so I said okay no worries , and then he just randomly started saying “this is why I could never be a dad, I don’t have my life on track like you do, started raising his voice and I said okay I will leave you to it and he hung up, I texted him a couple minutes after saying that wasn’t very nice to say this whilst on Call, and he texted back “fuck off” I ignored him, and later that day I texted him saying “I’ll drop your jumper and t-shirt off tomorrow I’ll leave it out side your front door “he lives in a block of flats so I knew his things would be ok out side his door” and later that night he was texting me asking to see me, I said No I don’t want to see you, he said “fuck sake please let me see you” again I said No, he went quiet for abit so I thought ok thank god , a few minutes later he texted again please let me see you I was having a shit day, I said I don’t care you don’t take it out on me, and he said “do you want a hug” I replied back NO , I will block you if you carry on texting me, he said please don’t block me, there’s no need to block me, I explained it’s not the first time he’s raised his voice at me, it’s not the first time he’s manipulated me, it’s the first time he’s said “I can’t be a dad” so I said I’m done I’m walking away, and he said, what do you mean we was never together….. URM I know that I said, he only sees Lily once a week for a few hours… but please girls tell me what I should do?? Block him, leave him unlocked? I cannot be bothered with him talking to me like this any more.