My 13 year old is horrible to me and takes the piss out of me all the time I'm absolutely sick of her behaviour which is has caused problems with me and DH now. Bad attitude every single day, jumping on the defence, if I ask her to take her clean laundry upstairs and tidy her room.
This morning she was awful I did lose my temper she was sat downstairs in her pajamas at 8 am and she said I'm not going to school today all because it had snowed the night before and was clever with me saying "dad said I could have the day off". I rang the school and offered course it was open and I told her she had to go which resulted into screaming and crying and yet she comes to me every time she has arranged to go shopping and cinema with her friends for money, which she has planned this weekend but the purse is staying shut.
She wasn't happy when her friends were going to London trip with school next spring and she wasn't going she wanted to skip school for a few days and I said no I don't think school would be ok with that, and because I said no not this year (she went the year before) bare in mind I have 3 little ones too she said "well it's not your money, it would of been dad's" also her grandma has just flown her to New York to visit family. I don't like her at all lately and she is making me miserable is anyone else going through this so I don't feel less alone