My ex is a predator

[Itsthelittlethingz]

Hi all I posted here a while back now about my children's father (33) being in a relationship with a 16 year old.

The 16 year old contacted me to make me aware of their relationship and that he had 'abandoned our kids for her'

I was sick as a dog.

It has been a year or so and he is now begging to see our children (7 YO) and saying how much he regrets and see's what he has done is wrong.

He is emailing and making IG an TikTok accounts to add me. I have ignored and blocked.

But when I looked on his IG/TIK TOK I noticed he was following about 5 people. One of them a girl, a young girl in uniform... maybe 15 I'm guessing.

My stomach turned like omg is this a pattern of his now...

She looks like she comes from a close 2.4 family. (I know that's generalising but I'm painting a picture, broken home is usually his thing)

My question is - I just am fighting the urge to message her mum to look at her daughters phone?

Last time the police said there was nothing they could do as his GF was now 16 and her mum consented for her (weird I know) they got stopped at the airport that's how the police found out, got suspicious and interviewed him for child grooming.

I'm worried incase this is his new victim but I don't know if it's a wise thing to contact her parent or stay out of it.

I've already mentioned to his mum, (as she was passing messages on to me for him) I've seen another child (named her) but his mum said he doesn't know who she is.

My goodness I despise him. I can't believe this is what is has come to. It triggers me and makes me nauseous whenever I see his name on my phone. I fall to bits and the way I can usually think for myself. I feel like I can't. So it feels safer to just ignore him. I'm also regretting mentioning his 'potential new victims name'

YYY to this.

I'm sorry you're getting a hard time here (from people who should give their heads a wobble).

We've had a similar situation although it wasn't my DH.

A person we know, who is a Paedophile (don't ask how we know him, it's a long story) was seen with a new Woman.

Felt sick as the new Woman probably doesn't know about how little hobby and may have DC.

We did decide to let the Police know using a non-emergency reporting form.

Perhaps that might be the way to go OP? At least then you can have a think about what you want to put before pressing send?

If she's in School Uniform, can you work out which School she goes to?

And I can remember your previous threads. How someone can blame this on you is unreal.

I wouldn't wish what you've been through on my worst enemy

OP you don’t deserve the harsh time people are giving you here - good for you in having concerns and proactively trying to address them, even if just by asking for advice here. Im really not sure what I would do. Perhaps as someone else said above, I would contact the police for their objective advice.