Hello everyone, I just want some advice, I have a 5 year old son, 7 year old daughter and 11 year old step son pregnant with another little boy , weve hady step son since he was 5 so he's always classed as my son also. We've recently changed bedrooms two youngest daughter and son have always shared a room , my dd has just turned 7 the council have said both boys need to share as there coming to inspect how small the rooms are to change our needs to bid for a 4 bed instead of 3 which we currently have, I liked my 2 youngest sharing personally. My eldest is very quiet but his behavior has changed massively since highschool , a lot of school calls for behavior etc which is never like him he just doesn't listen and now he certainly doesn't listen to me either, since changing him to share with his brother he's messing up the routines I has with the youngest 2 , ds 5 would be asleep by 8pm school night once the fan sounds are on, eldest goes to sleep at 8.30 due to him being up early to travel to high school , and he will lay in bed and stair at the ceiling till about 11pm he won't try close his eyes or anything , this meaning he's doing silly things in the bunk bed that's waking the youngest up , no matter how much you tell him he continues. I really regret my youngest sharing with him but I don't know what else to do the rooms are tiny I was even considering bringing him in my room with his dad and me but I've got a baby coming in 4 weeks too:/ any suggestions ?