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Babygrows as clothes?

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Gabsssss · 09/08/2023 09:50

I’ve seen lots of controversy about dressing children in babygrows for places like nursery. Am I a rubbish mum for doing so?

For context, my daughter is 9 months old. She has started crawling and pulling herself up and is in between sizes, so leggings / bottoms are either falling down on her or coming up far too short. She is struggling to wear dresses as she is standing on the bottoms of them, and then falling and getting frustrated.

I have been sending her in footless baby grows to nursery, but feel like I am being judged for doing so.

what are peoples honest opinions on this please?

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ChurlishGreen · 09/08/2023 11:02

Honestly, the idea that small babies should have separate ‘daywear’ and sleeping clothes is just silly. Babies nap all the time (and frequently stay up partying/teething/just being awkward half the night). It makes no sense to have separate types of clothes.

OsirisservesAnubis · 09/08/2023 11:04

I judge people who put newly mobile (commando crawl, crawling, just standing, starting to walk etc) children in dresses and skirts. Baby grows are practical! Dresses and skirts are not.

Jamtartforme · 09/08/2023 11:05

Parker231 · 09/08/2023 10:31

Why do they need to look dressed?

Why does anybody. Social convention. Nothing wrong with it.

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CoffeeWithCheese · 09/08/2023 11:11

Babygros never worked for my kids (they're all arms and legs and you couldn't get the limb length without having to size up the body and then ending up with a pissed off ball of baby all stuck in the torso bit) - but I don't really think I've ever given much thought to what other people's babies were dressed in to be honest. If they work for you and your child - go for it.

My brain was not sufficiently motivated to be trying to re-match up babygro poppers after nappy changes either - mine tended to wear a lot of soft leggings and tops type combos and we switched to pyjamas for sleep quite young because of the previous issues we had getting babygros that fitted well. Rompers worked for the warmer months a lot better though.

Cheeesus · 09/08/2023 11:14

Also, too short leggings look fine in summer? Just in case that opens any options.

pbdr · 09/08/2023 11:17

I still take my 21 month old out in them sometimes. She has difficult to control eczema and if she gets access to her skin she will scratch until she bleeds. Nothing keeps her covered as effectively as a sleep suit, so I prioritise her well-being over other people's judgements.
If your baby is comfortable and warm you're doing great. If anyone judge's then that reflects on them, not you.

Oldermum84 · 09/08/2023 11:31

My DS was in sleepsuits until about a year. Cheaper (bought them in multipacks) and easier.

Crossstich · 09/08/2023 11:32

Dress her on what you want.
Personally I think a baby gro is much more practical than a dress for a baby who is beginning to move around

Zimunya · 09/08/2023 11:33

ChurlishGreen · 09/08/2023 09:57

They are clothes. They are practical, comfortable and suitable for a baby exploring the world.

Exactly this.

gogomoto · 09/08/2023 11:56

Mine mostly wire dungarees or pinafore dresses with tights

Mummy08m · 09/08/2023 11:59

ChurlishGreen · 09/08/2023 11:02

Honestly, the idea that small babies should have separate ‘daywear’ and sleeping clothes is just silly. Babies nap all the time (and frequently stay up partying/teething/just being awkward half the night). It makes no sense to have separate types of clothes.

I know a couple of mums who, while their babies were between 1yo and 2yo, changed them into pyjamas for every nap and into daytime clothes between naps lol. What a faff! But it does no harm!

Peony654 · 09/08/2023 12:00

Baby grows are clothes? Surely best to wear whatever is comfortable and practical for nursery

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Shopper727 · 09/08/2023 12:35

Mine wore a lot of soft cotton dungaree type things comfy similar to baby grow but for day. I had 4 boys so handed stuff down they all wore the same dungarees or little top and shorts in summer or the short leg/sleeved babygrows in summer light cotton and practical

Icycloud · 09/08/2023 12:37

I think she is too old for baby gros that’s more of an at home thing as pyjamas, go for shorter dresses with leggings

TropicalTrama · 09/08/2023 12:40

It’s summer. Stick her in the leggings that fit round the waist (so 3-6 months?) and it doesn’t matter if they come up cropped, since cropped leggings are a real thing that lots of girls wear in warmish weather.

Genericusername2 · 09/08/2023 12:42

Dungarees are just essentially the same thing as a babygrow. Without sleeves. Sometimes a diff material.

Don't waste your money. She's a baby. In literal baby GROWS they wear them as they grow. Designed for that purpose.

Don't think I dressed my kids in anything else when they were less than a year old. We had printed jazzy ones for day time,footless. Comfy and cute.

Who are all these bored people judging babies??

timtam23 · 09/08/2023 12:43

Both of mine had soft cotton jersey dungarees or some cotton rompers with shorter legs which they wore almost every day at 6-9 months

FrizzledFrazzle · 09/08/2023 12:51

I've noticed thaty DS often comes back from nursery with his trouser legs pushed up to his calves so that he doesn't trip. Or the waistband folded over several times if something is too long. I think too short leggings are fine.

Also, I find that leggings with snug cuffs at the bottom are quite good, as there is space for the legs to be a bit baggy without the baby getting tangled up.

BarnacleBeasley · 09/08/2023 12:53

Those stretchy blade & rose (or cheaper alternative) leggings are good - they fit a really wide range of sizes.

AngryGreasedSantaCatcus · 09/08/2023 13:02

Icycloud · 09/08/2023 12:37

I think she is too old for baby gros that’s more of an at home thing as pyjamas, go for shorter dresses with leggings

She's literally still a baby. A crawling baby at that. How are skirts and dresses better?

Parker231 · 09/08/2023 13:10

Icycloud · 09/08/2023 12:37

I think she is too old for baby gros that’s more of an at home thing as pyjamas, go for shorter dresses with leggings

Why is a baby too old for baby grows? They are comfy and practical - doesn’t matter what they look like. We have b/g twins - they wore whichever babygrow we picked up first - some days DS wore one with bright pink flowers and DD one with cars and trains. They are babies - it doesn’t matter!

Gabby10 · 09/08/2023 13:16

There are babies this age at my DD's nursery who wear babygrows it's comfy for them and if my DD would stay still long enough for me to put one on she'd be in one too 😂. Agree about dresses, they are a nightmare even when they can walk! The amount of times my DD has bent down and managed to stand on her dress then trip up is daft! When inbetween sizes I found Asda/Tesco good for sizing or even Primark as their own leggings/shorts are on the small side x

LakeTiticaca · 09/08/2023 13:19

Sounds fine. Why would anyone judge you? As long as they are practical for nappy changing.
I don't like to see babies dressed like mini adults x

Sprogonthetyne · 09/08/2023 13:44

There's really not much difference between a footless onesie and a romper or playsuit.