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I'm a paediatric speech and language therapist... AMA!

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 18:30

12 years NHS experience working with children aged 18 months to 18 years.

Acutely aware that actually being able to speak to an NHS therapist these days is getting harder and harder.

Happy to answer anything I feel able to - I've worked with most areas of need over the years, but if not in my remit I'll say I'm not sure 😊 Maybe someone else who has more experience will be able to answer instead.

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Emotionalds · 28/01/2023 21:06

Re @Hunkyd0ry - my little boy just turned 4 and did this for a few months a while back at 3, and has just started again. We googled and saw to treat it like a regular stammer, give him time to finish his sentence and ignore it's an issue, not to help etc. Is it a problem that it's come back @SpeechandLanguageTherapist ? He did see nhs speech and language at age 2 and passed a hearing test then too, he was just a late starter. He was already under the dysphagia team for eating difficulties - no physical (no allergy or reflux anyway) problem detected in the end.

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:08

So many questions, wow! I will try and get round to answering as many as possible but may take me some time! Will keep coming back and answering a couple in the order they were asked whenever I get a moment. Hope that's okay!

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Walterwhiteswifey · 28/01/2023 21:08

Do you ever meet some children who just won't ever talk? My child can't talk yet and is primary age. We are trying to remain positive but don't know if it will ever happen 😔

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:09

Effortlesslyaverage · 28/01/2023 18:45

I saw a SALT recently for my 4 year old and she said she could see dc was very active and sensory seeking and they would assess further then give advice or refer. Who might she refer us on to?

Honestly it's very hard to say who they might refer to without knowing your child or what was said. Possibly a paediatrician who could consider different developmental diagnoses that may be appropriate. Probably best to ask your child's therapist if unsure.

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Paturday · 28/01/2023 21:11

Rovinonmars · 28/01/2023 20:32

@PaPaturday the 'j' sound is just d-y together. For example 'd..yam' for jam. It's just that we say it faster. You could try working on j words like this for a while, slow it down and see if it helps at all.

Ooh thanks for the tip!

120secondruleforchoconfloor · 28/01/2023 21:12

If a tongue tie is causing speech problems what sounds would you expect them to struggle with?

I know my son has a tongue tie and he's delayed in his speech (been referred with a 30 week wait) but I can't get a straight answer out of anyone as to what I should be looking out for in terms of determining weather his delay is to do with his tongue tie.

Thank you so much in advance!! 💐💐💐

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:12

ofwarren · 28/01/2023 18:46

What ways can speech and language therapy help an autistic child?
Are there ways you can help those who are classed as 'high functioning' too?

In so many ways honestly, this is a very broad question. With attention and listening, social skills, language skills, functional communication, routines, behaviour (related to communication difficulties). And yes we help children across the autism spectrum.

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PearPickingPorky · 28/01/2023 21:13

My 6 year old lisps s as th, says th as f or v, L sounds a bit like w, and r also sounds a bit like w.

Are we now passed the point where we can correct this without him seeing an SLT?

skingraft · 28/01/2023 21:15

My area are still doing speech and language therapy on video call! They still haven’t returned to face-to-face since covid began.

The sessions feel a bit silly, they were trying to do a pop-up pirate game with my little boy over the video call and it just wasn’t right🙄

Is this the same where you are? Any idea why they’re so slow getting back to normal compared to everyone else?

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:15

changingforthebetter3 · 28/01/2023 18:47

Is having a speech problem only with vowel sounds common and is it linked to anything?

It's not as common as having difficulties with consonants, but common enough that we work with vowel errors fairly frequently. It can be associated with a couple of different speech disorders, but it's really something that needs a speech and language therapy assessment to get to the bottom of what's going on.

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:18

SBAM · 28/01/2023 18:48

My just turned 3 year old (December birthday) isn’t pronouncing some sounds (cl, cr, th, st) clearly. Particular ones I’ve noticed today are he’s saying cween for clean, behicle for vehicle, dey for they.
Is this within the normal bracket for this age and is there anything I should be doing except repeating the correct pronunciation back to him?

This is all completely age appropriate! Clusters are hard and it sounds like they're starting to resolve. 'R', 'l' and 'th' are the hardest sounds in English and not in place until age 6. Please don't worry! Keep modelling back correctly 😊

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Iamanunsafebuilding · 28/01/2023 21:19

My DS was an early and articulate talker and by the age of 3 had an established stammer. Our speech and language provision was great and we were under their care until DS chose to not attend any more. He is now 24 and still stammers but he manages it and all my fears when he was little have not come to pass - he was never bullied, he went to Uni, he landed himself a brilliant grad job, he has loads of friends and tbf has always lived off his confidence.

I guess I'm saying 2 things, firstly thank you for your work, the therapists we saw helped me as much as DS. Secondly, if your child stammers it's ok and that took me a long time to accept.

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:21

SpornStar · 28/01/2023 18:49

DD is 10. Has had a mild stammer on and off since she was about 4. Have been through the NHS referral process twice but both times she was assessed and almost immediately discharged with some leaflets and websites to refer to for advice.

previously, the stammer has disappeared for periods of time (probably why she was discharged so early as often it’s not evident at all for several months at a time). However, it has returned and this time it has persisted longer than any previous incidences and she is more self conscious of it . She will be moving up to secondary school in September and I don’t want this to be knocking her confidence.

The NHS referral route seems pointless. We have read and taken on board the advice provided but it’s not improving the situation for her. Should I consider going private? I’ll happily pay for a therapist to work with her but don’t want to pay if I’m going to get sent away with leaflets and websites again.

A persistent stammer at this age is unlikely to fully resolve, but there are things you can do to maximise communicative effectiveness. A lot of work will be on accepting the stammer, reducing anxiety and learning to live with it in a positive way. Reducing anxiety can play a huge part in reducing the severity of the stammer. If you have the means to seek private support, I'd recommend finding a stammering specialist SaLT.

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:23

Rollerbird · 28/01/2023 18:50

Nursery says my 3 year old gd never speaks at nursery apart from the occasional whisper. She is loud and happy with family. Shy and clingy with unfamiliar people and won't talk to them. I'm worried and wondering about asking for a referral from gp for selective mutism. What do you think and do referrals come just from gps?

It sounds like a referral would be very beneficial for her. It depends on the area, but nurseries, HVs and GPs can all refer. HV and nursery would be most common. In most areas parents can also self refer, which many people don't realise.

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:24

ethermint · 28/01/2023 18:57

This may be off topic a bit so ignore if you're not sure - when someone has a fixed retainer (bonded behind their teeth) can it make them spit a bit more when they speak? and if so can anything be done about it?

Honestly I have no idea! I recommend speaking to an orthodontist!

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:26

Flowerfairy101 · 28/01/2023 18:59

My daughter is 2.5 but was 6 weeks premature, all caught up now developmentally. She can do 8-9 word sentences, has a good vocabulary ie, violin, fairy, mermaid. However she doesn't enunciate all her words correctly and some words like cheese sound guttural, like nnngggeese. Sometimes she is hard to understand because she doesn't say full or distinct words so og for dog, but I feel she is making progress for example can now say yellow distinctly.
The health visitor has referred her for speech and language assessment but of course there is a bit of a wait for this -what would your thoughts be on this and is it likely to improve with time? We have read to her from a young age, pointed things out , where's the green bunny etc, we always repeat what she says back correctly but it doesn't seem to be helping. She understands absolutely everything. I'm pretty sure she can hear correctly but will take her to the GP to get them to check her ears. Any help much appreciated!

Without seeing her and listening to her speech it's really hard to give any specific advice, but she's very young and there's always a good chance in such young children of their speech improving. Always useful to have hearing checked. Keep modelling, modelling, modelling those tricky sounds, and don't explicitly correct or do anything to make her self conscious of the errors she's making.

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:32

Silverbook · 28/01/2023 19:02

My 4 (turned 4 in Nov) had a good vocabulary and shoes good understanding but his speech isn’t clear. I can understand everything but strangers really struggle. He’s very sociable and always wants a chat. Is is pronunciation likely to improve with time or will he need therapy?
Are there any apps or programmes you can recommend for this?

I will never recommend a programme or app for speech and language development - children need human, face to face interaction to develop their communication skills. More screen time is not the answer (can stress this enough).

Without knowing what speech errors their making it's really hard to comment on whether they're likely to improve by themselves I'm afraid. If in doubt, seek a referral to SaLT.

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SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:32

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:32

I will never recommend a programme or app for speech and language development - children need human, face to face interaction to develop their communication skills. More screen time is not the answer (can stress this enough).

Without knowing what speech errors their making it's really hard to comment on whether they're likely to improve by themselves I'm afraid. If in doubt, seek a referral to SaLT.

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Fudgeandcaramel · 28/01/2023 21:37

My 7 year old has a mild lateral lisp (as did I at his age which resolved with speech therapy). I haven’t taken him to salt yet as was doing OT and I thought that was enough for the moment but he’s been discharged from them. I was going to see a SALT privately this year about it but now he’s started losing his front baby teeth. Just wondering whether to go for salt anyway or wait until the teeth situation has resolved somewhat. Thanks so much.

noimaginationforausername · 28/01/2023 21:39

Hi, thanks for doing this.

My grandson has just turned 2 (last week) and all he says is Mama, Dada and no, I look after him 2 days a week and try to get him talking or at least trying but he won't even try. He has a lot to say but it's all babble!

His parents brush it off saying "oh he'll get there" but I'm not sure if he needs some intervention now or if he really will get there in his own time without help?

He starts nursery in July (2.5) so will they pick up on it and provide help?

Thanks again!

strongallowed · 28/01/2023 21:44

GoldenGoose90 · 28/01/2023 19:57

My son has been intubated with bronchiolitis several times, consultant said potentially this will have scarred his vocal chords which is why his speech isn't super clear. Anything we can do to help him in the meantime? He has just turned 2 and we are on the wait list for a speech & language therapist. :)

Intubation has a high correlation to vocal cord injury but this causes your voice to be hoarse or husky and any damage can be seen by scoping by ENT. SLTs can work on voice production. This isn't the same as unclear speech though, that would have a different cause. (ICU SLT here)

Strawberrypicnic · 28/01/2023 21:46

Thanks OP - I am reading this with interest as have applied to start an MSc in speech and language therapy later this year (am early 30s, seeking a career change). I'd be really interested to know how you found the degree? The website for the course I have applied to describes it as intensive. Did you/would you have had time to work part-time on the side?

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:48

Prickmeplease · 28/01/2023 19:03

What are some of the challenges you face in this career? Do you enjoy your role? Would you recommend others to train in this field? Thanks!

I love my job. The challenges I face come from working in the NHS. As a service we're chronically underfunded, managing huge caseloads of children with very few members of staff. As a result we're stretched extremely thin and able to provide the bare minimum to each child and family (and some services aren't even able to provide that). Parents, nursery staff and teachers can sometimes get angry at us as individuals, which is very hard when we're overworked and trying our best. We're fully aware of the limitations of the service and at the mercy of politicians.

Given the right resources I would have very little to complain about, I feel so lucky to be in such a rewarding and interesting job and would recommend training to anyone.

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Strawberrypicnic · 28/01/2023 21:48

Strawberrypicnic · 28/01/2023 21:46

Thanks OP - I am reading this with interest as have applied to start an MSc in speech and language therapy later this year (am early 30s, seeking a career change). I'd be really interested to know how you found the degree? The website for the course I have applied to describes it as intensive. Did you/would you have had time to work part-time on the side?

Sorry, should have mentioned that I have applied for the two-year course, same as you did.

And another question (if you have time): how/why did you decide to specialise in paediatric work?

Thank you!

SpeechandLanguageTherapist · 28/01/2023 21:50

Tiredmum31111 · 28/01/2023 19:23

My little girl is 3.5y and was referred for SLT and a hearing test. She's been 3 times for her hearing test and her eardrum was totally occluded with wax and now partially occluded (even with months and months of ear drops) the test showed hearing loss in both ears. She now has a ENT referral.
She is shy and her speech sounds aren't all very clear (she says let's instead of yes for example).
She asks questions, speaks short sentences and has understanding, she talks a lot less out of her comfortable family surroundings.
Her referral was rejected by SLT, didn't meet criteria?!
She is definitely speech delayed compared to here peers. Have you had experience where is it mainly a physical issue (eg wax) that when resolved her speech should come on or do you think we need to push for her speech referral. I feel she needs both?! Sorry long post x

Yes I've seen childrens' speech and language skills improve dramatically once temporary hearing problems are resolved. It's very hard for me to comment on why her referral was rejected without knowing any details. But mixing 'y' and 'l' wouldn't be a concern at her age.

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