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Is this dress offensive?

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freezingpompoms · 20/01/2023 14:58

This dress was bought in America 20 years ago. It's a Disney Small World dress that depicts differing nationalities. It's age 2-3.

Someone said they didn't think it's very PC so I just want to check. I'm happy to be told either way.

Is this dress offensive?
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SweetcornFritter · 20/01/2023 19:05

Hoppinggreen · 20/01/2023 18:53

Wow, are you saying other racist images exist?
Well in that case I completely change my mind about this dress

So the Koreans who created this character and who watch it and consume associated products depicting this children’s cartoon character are all racists are they? Interesting.

Yeahrightthen · 20/01/2023 19:06

Are you going to sharpie the eyes OP?

Answer the question and end this!🤣

freezingpompoms · 20/01/2023 19:08

Yeahrightthen · 20/01/2023 19:06

Are you going to sharpie the eyes OP?

Answer the question and end this!🤣

I've never had such a busy thread!!!

I think I'll have a look at restitching the eyes.

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StarDolphins · 20/01/2023 19:08

Yeahrightthen · 20/01/2023 16:17

I can’t honestly believe anyone in RL would get worked up about this.

MN on the other hand…

Exactly! Plus, I’d need my glasses on & which kid even stays still long enough to focus on the detail like eyes on a doll/kid on a skirt🤣

Beung offended doesn’t make you right, it’s just an opinion that some people can’t seem to accept!

I would put my DD in this & if anyone was offended (they wouldn’t be) I’d just say “oh well, tough tittie”

NameChange005 · 20/01/2023 19:13

I can’t honestly believe anyone in RL would get worked up about this.

MN on the other hand…

I don't think anybody is "worked up", they've just answered the OPs question. TBH I think most people, if seeing a child wearing the dress wouldn't notice the characters, or their features. But since OPs posted the dress, zoomed in and asked, people are responding to that.

RoseslnTheHospital · 20/01/2023 19:14

@StarDolphins do you think that people who have been racially abused using the narrow eyes stereotype, like a previous poster's children, would actually raise it with you? Or are they more likely to mark you down as either ignorantly or deliberately racist and avoid you as much as possible in the future?

Doyoumind · 20/01/2023 19:15

StarDolphins · 20/01/2023 19:08

Exactly! Plus, I’d need my glasses on & which kid even stays still long enough to focus on the detail like eyes on a doll/kid on a skirt🤣

Beung offended doesn’t make you right, it’s just an opinion that some people can’t seem to accept!

I would put my DD in this & if anyone was offended (they wouldn’t be) I’d just say “oh well, tough tittie”

You'd say tough tittie to the face of one of the people on this thread of the ethnicity being depicted who said they are offended? How can you be proud to make this statement? Confused

BewareTheLibrarians · 20/01/2023 19:16

SweetcornFritter · 20/01/2023 18:52

Dear me, if you find this dress offensive, don’t whatever you do google Pucca the Korean cartoon character, you’ll be utterly outraged at the depictions on all the DVDs and associated merch currently available to purchase all over the inter.

Pucca, as in the cartoon where the characters have a variety of different eye shapes (much as one would find in real life across a variety of nationalities?)

If it’s created by a Korean artist, rather than an American one, that also makes a difference re representation vs lazy stereotypes.

Is this dress offensive?
LadyKenya · 20/01/2023 19:17

CockSpadget · 20/01/2023 17:37

This thread is a prime example of how racism is still so deeply ingrained in society. The uses of “cancel culture” and woke, or “looking to be offended” might as well just say “I like being racist, so stop trying to take that away from me”
Do better people.

This.

Calphurnia88 · 20/01/2023 19:17

NameChange005 · 20/01/2023 19:13

I can’t honestly believe anyone in RL would get worked up about this.

MN on the other hand…

I don't think anybody is "worked up", they've just answered the OPs question. TBH I think most people, if seeing a child wearing the dress wouldn't notice the characters, or their features. But since OPs posted the dress, zoomed in and asked, people are responding to that.

Yup.

Ironically, but unsurprisingly, the only people getting worked up on this thread are the ones claiming that people are too easily offended these days.

StarDolphins · 20/01/2023 19:27

RoseslnTheHospital · 20/01/2023 19:14

@StarDolphins do you think that people who have been racially abused using the narrow eyes stereotype, like a previous poster's children, would actually raise it with you? Or are they more likely to mark you down as either ignorantly or deliberately racist and avoid you as much as possible in the future?

Well as I’m not racist, they can mark me down as whatever they like but I’m guessing unless you insist a child stays still so you can inspect a doll on a skirt or you’re looking for something wrong then nobody would notice/care what the tiny eyes on a tiny skirt look like.

neptunem · 20/01/2023 19:27

The world has gone nuts!

Why is it if you're inclusive and show diversity you're then stereotyping? Would it bother me with an American word a beef eater skirt - NO! anyone who gets offended by a very sweet skirt is going to rub off on their kids and give their kid strange ideas!!!!!!!

SweetcornFritter · 20/01/2023 19:28

BewareTheLibrarians · 20/01/2023 19:16

Pucca, as in the cartoon where the characters have a variety of different eye shapes (much as one would find in real life across a variety of nationalities?)

If it’s created by a Korean artist, rather than an American one, that also makes a difference re representation vs lazy stereotypes.

Yes, that’s the one. The main character is the one with the slanted eyes and it is her depiction that can be found on a multitude of merch online right now. If I were to dress my little girl in clothing with her image on it and posted about it on here I presume (based on this thread) that a lot of very angry people would be calling me a racist but yet it seems perfectly acceptable in Korea and I don’t see much of a hooha about it anywhere else, the cartoons haven’t been banned for example, in fact they were on Netflix not long ago.

SweetcornFritter · 20/01/2023 19:29

Incidentally Pucca sells noodles and has a Ninja boyfriend which is all very streotypical and offensive as well - potentially!

Hoppinggreen · 20/01/2023 19:29

SweetcornFritter · 20/01/2023 19:05

So the Koreans who created this character and who watch it and consume associated products depicting this children’s cartoon character are all racists are they? Interesting.

No idea, not seen it but as you mention it in a thread about racist images it would be a fair assumption

BewareTheLibrarians · 20/01/2023 19:30

RoseslnTheHospital · 20/01/2023 19:14

@StarDolphins do you think that people who have been racially abused using the narrow eyes stereotype, like a previous poster's children, would actually raise it with you? Or are they more likely to mark you down as either ignorantly or deliberately racist and avoid you as much as possible in the future?

I’m a bit worried that my kids would go for option 1, and not gently 😁

But seriously, for most kids who’ve been racially abused with that stereotype, it will just add an extra weight to the discomfort or pain or feeling of not fitting in that they already carry.

Posters like @StarDolphins and the others on this thread who are happy to add to that pain just because they don’t get it either don’t realise the harm they do, or don’t see kids of other races as important enough to care about.

Angelicat · 20/01/2023 19:30

See my earlier post. Pics like this are the opposite of inclusive, and while there may be an intention of trying to show diversity, they actually show a version of diversity so narrow that it has the opposite effect.

Angelicat · 20/01/2023 19:31

That was in response to @neptunem

SweetcornFritter · 20/01/2023 19:33

Hoppinggreen · 20/01/2023 19:29

No idea, not seen it but as you mention it in a thread about racist images it would be a fair assumption

I’ve heard it all now.

StarDolphins · 20/01/2023 19:35

Doyoumind · 20/01/2023 19:15

You'd say tough tittie to the face of one of the people on this thread of the ethnicity being depicted who said they are offended? How can you be proud to make this statement? Confused

Yes I would. It’s a skirt that is small with the tiniest detail to a grown up - like I said previously, I’d think cute skirt & that’s it. I wouldn’t be able to tell you what the dolls look like/what their features are but a glance at a lovely skirt.

I’d be offended that they were offended! I would also be extremely impressed that they can make out anything on it as what little kid stands still while you inspect their clothing.

RoseslnTheHospital · 20/01/2023 19:35

@StarDolphins ok, so racist images are fine as long as they are likely small enough not to be noticed.

I'd like to see you stand in front of the children mentioned on this thread and tell them that racist imagery depicting the exact way they've previously been racially abused is just their "tough titties" if they do notice it and are upset.

StarDolphins · 20/01/2023 19:36

*from a glance

BewareTheLibrarians · 20/01/2023 19:38

@SweetcornFritter I looked into Pucca a little more. Turns out

Although she is usually depicted with her eyes closed (which is also the case with both Bruce and Ssoso), she will sometimes opens her eyes in some animations (like in the episodes Dance, Pucca, Dance and The Usual Ching, where it shows Pucca with red eyes) and in some official art.

RoseBucket · 20/01/2023 19:38

@freezingpompoms off tool if but I got stuck in the centre of that ride in a boat for over an hour with that bloody song going on and on. I’ve never been so pleased to leave a ride.

RoseBucket · 20/01/2023 19:38

*off topic