Boy and girl not related sharing bedroom??

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Can anybody tell me if this is legal? Ive googled and theres alot about siblings sharing but not not related.

Prick ex moved in with OW within 3 weeks from when i found out, he had mainly day contact most saturday days and he's had him 5 times overnight in 7 months at his dads house ass they live in in a 2 bed terraced, both her kids have a room each and they sleep in the living room on a bed setee. Hence no room from our Son to sleep. Ive heard off our Son thats they are getting another bed to go in one of the rooms so i think he's gearing up to have him their even though that not what was agreed in medation.

Does anybody know wherebI stand on this one? Both kids boy and girl are 6 years old who i assume are sharing. Her eldest is 16.

Thanks

@thewayround you have just quoted guidelines and best practise.

I remember when there was slightly more council housing around in some parts of London at the beginning of the century, someone who had lots of dealings with councils on behalf of others explained that due to the lack of 3+ bedroom council homes councils would wait until a child was an adult then offer their own place. Unfortunately that place would likely be in a shit area that was likely nearby.

I'd say fine for 6 yo but I'd ask what his long term plan for this is

I don't think I'd be comfortable either. It's maybe ok for the next year or so for one
night a week but beyond that I'd be concerned.

Where will your son sleep then? Your ex can't help that he doesn't live in a mansion. Maybe encourage him to win the lottery or get massive promotions so he can find a huge house with many bedrooms and then your child can have his own annex. This baffles me

@Lkydfju so bizarre, why? They are 6? Why would they need a lot of supervision. What a strange strange thing to say. Grim.

I find comments like this very worrying

I have 4 grandchildren with me on sgo now mother is with a man who has a 1 yr old her 4 kids are 14-13-10-9 everytime they go contact so does the 1 yr old and they have share a bedroom with 1 yr old n because he keeps them awake crying they don’t want sleep over but there mum said tough on them because the 1 yr olds dads going court for shared custody of him but the older kids mum had her kids taken off her n placed with me is this seen as putting her partner n his child’s needs above her own kids needs 2 of the kids have complex needs