My dearrrrr husband is so useless it hurts. He's actually causing more household work than if he wouldn't live here. I do his laundry, clean up after him and everything. Now I asked him if he can take the baby for an hour a day so that I can at least breathe a little.
He said it depends on his work day. Is. He. Kidding. Me?
I also work all day. 24/7. I never really get a break where I can be sure that I won't be needed. His attitude pisses me off. He only takes the baby for the night once a month maybe?
He said it's much worse to get up at 2 or 4 am in the morning for work compared to being awake every 2 hrs in the night. (I let him have his solid 7-8hrs of sleep every night before work and he only has 3-4 night shifts) but he tells me he can't sleep before 10pm. Now how is that my problem?????
When he comes home he needs a break. Eats for 30mins to an hour and watching YouTube. Then naps or takes a bath for an hour. Does he think having a baby is a breeze?
I'm tired so so tired and exhausted. I have panic attacks and cry most days.
No family to help. No friends around. It's me. Always. And a very useless husband that could just as well be a pet. But pets at least don't argue.
Am I being irrational? I feel like he isn't pulling his weight