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What age did you give your children squash?

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RedRobyn2021 · 25/08/2022 06:48

Just that really

Some days this summer my daughter hasn't drunk enough and we have had dry nappies

My mum thinks I'm overthinking it with squash, but she's only 18 months. I do t want to make a mistake.

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RedRobyn2021 · 25/08/2022 15:37

Noddy21 · 25/08/2022 08:32

Mine are a lot older than yours, but I know mine had it younger than everyone has said on here, they used to do baby juice, not sure if that’s still a thing. If it’s the only thing baby will drink then dilute it massively and not in a bottle and don’t worry about it. All of mine are teens now and doing absolutely fine!

I think this is the point my mum was making, I have excellent teeth and she gave me juice from a young age.

It's that whole "you turned out well, stop worrying about it"

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FleetingGlance · 25/08/2022 15:38

Dunno probably from 2?
always have it in the house and it’s always an option but mine (now 9 and 6) seem to favour water
i don’t know anybody who has made it a banned item

RedRobyn2021 · 25/08/2022 15:38

AdriannaP · 25/08/2022 09:27

From 4 as a treat, never at home. Give her watermelon and other fruit, offer water lots. Get her a fun cup that she likes.

Good idea. Yes I've tried giving her juicy fruit to help.

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AmbushedByCake1 · 25/08/2022 15:38

Never and DS is now 7. Squash it's a UPF so if you can avoid it then do.

RedRobyn2021 · 25/08/2022 15:41

Littlegoth · 25/08/2022 09:40

We were advised to give him squash when he was 15 months old. He was admitted to hospital with tonsillitis (he had it a LOT!) and the paediatrician told us to give him sugar free squash to encourage him to drink. We only give it occasionally and it’s barely a splash. He’s usually very good at drinking water unless he’s under the weather or, annoyingly, if it’s very warm.

This is the thing actually, she's always been ok drinking water. But the moment we got to summer she's been drinking a lot less, it doesn't make a great deal of sense.

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RedRobyn2021 · 25/08/2022 15:43

Cheesystuffedcrust · 25/08/2022 14:16

no squash here. Easier said then done but don’t stress too much about dry/dryer than usual nappies. But, to get extra fluid in I do as follows

  • offer but don’t nag/push water. Just casually would you like some/remind them where it is and don’t make a fuss about it
  • take them to cupboard and choose a cup (we have 360/straw/sippy) and ‘help fill it up’
  • teach them to cheers and then take a big swig (makes it a fun game)
  • when it’s hot, no clothes on in the garden with an open cup (see above fun game)
  • fluid from food counts, cucumber, strawberries melon etc

TLDR keep it fun and breezy. Don’t make it a power struggle.

Love these suggestions, thank you

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Dinoteeth · 25/08/2022 15:50

Op is it over night that you are getting dry nappies?
Is she wetting them when she gets up?

Could she be ready to potty train?

Both my boys were waking with dry nappies before they potty trained it was one of the things that made me decide to train them. Both trained fairly quickly and were out of night nappies within about 3 weeks.

20viona · 25/08/2022 16:00

Don't bother. Plain water is the best, they don't miss what they never have. I aren't saying that she never will but my 3 year old only has water (loves it ice cold) and won't even touch apple or orange juice.

RedRobyn2021 · 25/08/2022 16:29

Dinoteeth · 25/08/2022 15:50

Op is it over night that you are getting dry nappies?
Is she wetting them when she gets up?

Could she be ready to potty train?

Both my boys were waking with dry nappies before they potty trained it was one of the things that made me decide to train them. Both trained fairly quickly and were out of night nappies within about 3 weeks.

They aren't dry every night, but some nights, by the time we have done breakfast she'll have had a big wee. I don't think she's ready to potty train yet, she doesn't tell me when she needs poo or anything yet but if she doesn't have a nappy on she does grab her vulva and babble as though to say she needs to go, but then she usually wets herself, so I don't think the control is there yet.

But she's my first child so I don't know the signs if I'm honest.

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Dinoteeth · 25/08/2022 17:15

Op if she is doing a big wee then she isn't dehydrated.

I'd get her a potty and start giving her a chance to use when you are doing nappy changes, before bed, when she gets up. At just 18mths she might not be ready to tell you, but she's holding overnight so the control is there.

My oldest was just over 2 when I trained him, and he was pooing in the potty from about 6 months. He was a pain in the bum, he'd wait for a clean nappy to poo in, 💩 it drove me daft doing two nappy changes in the space of 10mins. Result if I caught that poo in the potty.

Don't underestimate her, she might not be able to give you much warning but I'd be so so tempted to try. Keep the potty in the room you are in initially.

RedRobyn2021 · 25/08/2022 17:48

Dinoteeth · 25/08/2022 17:15

Op if she is doing a big wee then she isn't dehydrated.

I'd get her a potty and start giving her a chance to use when you are doing nappy changes, before bed, when she gets up. At just 18mths she might not be ready to tell you, but she's holding overnight so the control is there.

My oldest was just over 2 when I trained him, and he was pooing in the potty from about 6 months. He was a pain in the bum, he'd wait for a clean nappy to poo in, 💩 it drove me daft doing two nappy changes in the space of 10mins. Result if I caught that poo in the potty.

Don't underestimate her, she might not be able to give you much warning but I'd be so so tempted to try. Keep the potty in the room you are in initially.

Hm if you think so then I will give it a try, it can't hurt. I assumed she was too young.

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Tgilaura · 25/08/2022 18:00

Mine has been offered since about 9 months, but that’s because she’s useless at drinking. She’s now 13 months and still the same. In fact today she’s constipated because she drinks so little.
i think sometimes offering a bit of variety can encourage them to drink more. Sometimes I do water, sometimes squash, sometimes watered down juice.
I d love for her to just drink water, but at this point I will settle for her drinking anything!

BiscuitLover3678 · 25/08/2022 18:02

I wouldn’t especially so young. If she’s thirsty she’ll have water.

Ice lollies can be good and means she still drinks water as her normal drink once summer is over.

Lilbunnyfufu · 25/08/2022 18:04

DS is 5 and only recently had squash for the first time.
I look after a little boy who is 13 months and his mum has been giving him squash for a few months now.

justdontkno1 · 25/08/2022 18:08

I’ve never bought it and don’t give it in the 11 years I’m a parent . If they are in someone else’s house and drink it fine. Our kids drink water or real fruit juice. I think squash is disgusting in taste and the ingredients are weird. If your child won’t drink anything else fair enough but why would you start a child on this ?

Cheesystuffedcrust · 25/08/2022 18:29

No problem @RedRobyn2021 :)

also sorry just seen it’s overnight nappies you’re concerned about? My eldest DC went through a stage of dry nappies overnight at a similar age, then back to ridiculously full overnight nappies. Consistently dry for a few months now but I’m too scared to ditch the nighttime nappy lol!

bloodywhitecat · 25/08/2022 18:46

Very early under the advice of his SaLT and dietician, he wasn't taking anywhere near enough fluids (he wouldn't take squash or juice either) and his nappies were very dry day and night. It turned out the reason he wasn't taking water or diluted juice was because he has dysphagia and now that has been realised and his water is thickened he happily drinks enough.

DessertLady2 · 25/08/2022 18:50

avocadotofu · 25/08/2022 07:41

My DS is nearly 4 and he's never had it. I don't see the point. It's not especially healthy so I'm not planning on giving it to him. He does occasionally have juice though but that's a pretty recent thing too. 18 months in too young I think.

Same for us.

RidingMyBike · 25/08/2022 19:04

It doesn't sound like dehydration, more like bladder control overnight? Mine was about the same age when she started being dry during the night.

We never introduced squash at home (she's now 6yo). She's had it very occasionally eg after church they offer squash for the children when the adults have coffee. She has some fruit juice at breakfast and sometimes a carton of fruit juice when we're out but otherwise just milk or water.

MajorCarolDanvers · 25/08/2022 19:06

Age 2-3.

I can't really remember. You stress about these things when they are little and then you realise it's not that big a deal.

AegonT · 25/08/2022 20:14

My 7 year old has only had it recently at parties and usually asks for water instead. She's had an occasional glass of real fruit juice with a meal since she was 5 (and sometimes diluted before that).

DocsandSocks · 25/08/2022 20:57

My daughter is 18 months. She has squash occasionally and even more so when it's a hot day and she needs more liquid but won't drink water. Same as she has chocolates, crisps but everybody has opinions on that too. Just do what you feel is best :)

EastVillage77 · 26/08/2022 14:25

DD 2 just has water but when shes poorly or out of sorts she has a very weak squash in her straw bottle. A little now and then with a good tooth brush is fine IMO - I dont believe in banning food and drink as it can make them binge on it when they are older.

SaharaSahara · 26/08/2022 16:06

My 3yo drinks it now and again and I think she was over 1 but can’t remember exact age when she started. I don’t see an issue, she has water mainly.

CatOnJupiter · 26/08/2022 22:55

You could try coconut water. Generally I want ds to get into the habit of just drinking water but I did this during the heatwave to get more fluids into Ds (and DD has been having coconut water for years). It's delicious and healthy too.