My partner works as a police officer and is also an extremely light sleeper, before DC was born has no problem falling asleep on the sofa but now DC is born wants to have the bedroom himself and thinks that I should take the bassinet into living room as he wakes up when baby wakes and then can’t get back to sleep.
I understand he has to be alert for his job, but feel like it’s unfair I have to lug baby and bassinet downstairs every night.
we don’t have a spare room, live in a one bed and can’t afford to upsize yet.
Our baby is 11 weeks.
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Is it fair DC and I have to sleep in the living room?
beefinthetrifle · 08/08/2022 02:08
Woodswoman · 08/08/2022 03:46
Is every male police officer an absolute arsehole?
dreamingofsun · 08/08/2022 09:35
I cant believe some of the stupid suggestions on here. No wonder there are so many single parent famiies around.
He is trying to hold down a detailed and dangerous/stressful job with limited sleep. This must be a nightmare. Driving fast, dealing with people and knives if you arent on your top game doesnt bear thinking about.
Talk to each other to find a solution. This might be moving to a bigger place, or you going back to work so you can earn more money to enable this Ignore the knee jerk idiot suggestions made by some on here
Nekomata · 08/08/2022 08:46
I think it needs to be said again.
No one should be sleeping on a sofa with a baby. It really isn’t safe at all.
dreamingofsun · 08/08/2022 09:35
I cant believe some of the stupid suggestions on here. No wonder there are so many single parent famiies around.
He is trying to hold down a detailed and dangerous/stressful job with limited sleep. This must be a nightmare. Driving fast, dealing with people and knives if you arent on your top game doesnt bear thinking about.
Talk to each other to find a solution. This might be moving to a bigger place, or you going back to work so you can earn more money to enable this Ignore the knee jerk idiot suggestions made by some on here
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dreamingofsun · 08/08/2022 09:35
I cant believe some of the stupid suggestions on here. No wonder there are so many single parent famiies around.
He is trying to hold down a detailed and dangerous/stressful job with limited sleep. This must be a nightmare. Driving fast, dealing with people and knives if you arent on your top game doesnt bear thinking about.
Talk to each other to find a solution. This might be moving to a bigger place, or you going back to work so you can earn more money to enable this Ignore the knee jerk idiot suggestions made by some on here
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