Once i was abroad with my husband and 18 month old daughter. Our 1st holiday away. We had booked for 10 days and she was teething practically all the way from day 1. She'd cry non stop I literally felt like crying too as I'd wanted a break and didn't expect this to be a stressful holiday. I gave her calpol which settled her and so she could actually enjoy the holiday too. We did a lot with her day in day out the whole holiday was centred around her. On day 8 we booked a restaurant for a romantic meal. We dressed up and took our daughter with us. We literally just wanted 1 peaceful meal between us with a chat. So we took the ipad along. We made sure she ate first. When our food arrived we put the ipad on and let her watch rhymes. But we couldn't help but notice many families around us staring in disgrace and whispering. They were from other parts of the world but I felt very uncomfortable. 1 lady in particular was glaring and shaking her head at us. When I say staring i mean very obvious staring from many people. I felt so uncomfortable. Like I couldn't relax. When we finished and switched off the ipad which my daughter was so content watching. They stopped staring but loved my daughter and smiled. So it was kind of a happy ending. Still shocks me till today lol.
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MolliciousIntent · 13/05/2022 15:50
I'm assuming you were in Europe? They have a very different attitude to children than in the UK, they include them as part of the family at meals out rather than trying to keep them quiet and distracted. So you taking the iPad off your daughter and engaging with her during the meal would have met with their approval.
Cappuccino17 · 14/05/2022 12:11
I think I'd definitely do it again. No regrets.
EarringsandLipstick · 14/05/2022 20:14
will secretly applaud you for your bravery for taking a 18 month old on a family holiday on your own with your husband without a army full of in-laws, grandparents, aunts and uncles and nannies
Huh? Bizarre thing to say - most parents take their own children on holidays, on their own.
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