Once i was abroad with my husband and 18 month old daughter. Our 1st holiday away. We had booked for 10 days and she was teething practically all the way from day 1. She'd cry non stop I literally felt like crying too as I'd wanted a break and didn't expect this to be a stressful holiday. I gave her calpol which settled her and so she could actually enjoy the holiday too. We did a lot with her day in day out the whole holiday was centred around her. On day 8 we booked a restaurant for a romantic meal. We dressed up and took our daughter with us. We literally just wanted 1 peaceful meal between us with a chat. So we took the ipad along. We made sure she ate first. When our food arrived we put the ipad on and let her watch rhymes. But we couldn't help but notice many families around us staring in disgrace and whispering. They were from other parts of the world but I felt very uncomfortable. 1 lady in particular was glaring and shaking her head at us. When I say staring i mean very obvious staring from many people. I felt so uncomfortable. Like I couldn't relax. When we finished and switched off the ipad which my daughter was so content watching. They stopped staring but loved my daughter and smiled. So it was kind of a happy ending. Still shocks me till today lol.
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iminthebath12 · 15/05/2022 13:10
Sometimes MN makes me realise that some people are just mental. I'm not talking about you OP...
JudgeRindersMinder · 14/05/2022 09:08
What’s wrong with a book or small toy? Why does it have to be a screen for a baby?
AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair · 15/05/2022 15:15
Are you easily shocked? Prepare to be blown away then, I and millions of other parents managed perfectly well before iPads and other portable screens were invented, I'm certainly not the only person never to have done this, that's for sure
Cappuccino17 · 14/05/2022 12:00
It was a one off so really don't feel bad. Our daughter is a huge part of out lives. For 40 minutes she watched some rhymes. I thought all mums would do this atleast once in thier motherhood lol I'm shocked.
Cappuccino17 · 13/05/2022 22:27
Do people never ever do this when out? Just for a break? We did it once on our full holiday so for us we didn't even feel bad in the least as we know how much attention my daughter gets from us in the bigger picture.
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Hermione101 · 16/05/2022 13:54
We’ve never done it. And sound in a restaurant or other public place is intolerable.
TiredEyes1991 · 16/05/2022 12:13
I’ll be honest - I HATE seeing families out for dinner with the kids/babies sat in front of a phone or iPad, whether the sound is on or off makes no difference. Meal time is family time in my eyes. You shouldn’t need a screen to occupy your child, we all grew up without a screen at dinner time so I don’t see why parents do it now?
I have a baby who isn’t even 1 years old. We go out for food but obviously we only go places where it’s fairly loud/casual so it won’t matter if the baby makes noise. Romantic dinners are out of the question unless you have a baby sitter. We just find other ‘romantic’ things to do
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