Me and my mother in law have had a big falling out over my baby. She's always telling me and my partner to go to her house with our little boy, if we say we're busy she gets mardy about it, for example last weekend she asked if we was going to hers and we said we didn't know as had other plans - later that day she messaged and asked why we didn't go and my partner told her we had a lot of other stuff to do and we just wanted to be home, she then got moody, bear in my mind she lives a walk away and could easily come to ours but she doesn't, she then went onto say she will have our baby for us and we both said we don't need you to but thanks anyway - she replied and said "well do it all yourself then" and said our baby won't know any of them (partners side of the family) if we don't leave him for a few hours which we have a few times already with her, I told her he will know them as they see him through visiting but only mainly when we make the effort to take him for people to see him, nobody hardly offers to come to ours it's always us going to them.. once when we were going to pick him up from her she sounded very mardy about us going to get him and said to us "just get him later" - I was made to feel as though I couldnt go get my own child without upsetting her. Back to last weekend - she said he will end up a spoilt mardy child - all this because I don't feel the need to be away from him, he's a very well behaved baby and I don't feel the need to be away from him if I don't need to be, I confronted her over the phone about how she's interfering and making me feel down because this isn't the first time she's been this way with me - she told me to f* off and called me a silly cow. Later on my partner said to her I was willing to talk things out but she said she didn't want to and that we will never get on when it comes to my baby. I've been made to feel daft for wanting my son with me and not wanting her to have him all the time. I just don't know how things will ever be the way they used to be.