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What would you say is the best sport for boys?

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isitworthitUK · 19/09/2021 18:42

I'm thinking of putting my nearly four year old into something.
What do people recommend, I am thinking maybe tennis?
Tennis? Rugby? Cricket? Football?

I always liked/thought my sons would do rugby but I feel like it's maybe too dangerous/too many injuries...

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dementedpixie · 19/09/2021 18:44

My ds did some gymnastics then some football and now does rugby.

Could he do some taster sessions? Depends what he likes tbh

Zarene · 19/09/2021 18:44

I’d give him a try at a few and see what he likes! I can’t believe there’s a ‘best’ sport, just a best sport for each individual.

dementedpixie · 19/09/2021 18:45

Taekwondo? Karate?

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NatriumChloride · 19/09/2021 18:46

The “best” sport for boys? Hmm

Sort of depends on what your son likes, doesn’t it? He may loathe football but prefer gymnastics or dance.

I’d say do a load of taster sessions in different things and take your cues from him.

LookMawAPossum · 19/09/2021 18:48

I can’t think of a single sport where you need a penis.

converseandjeans · 19/09/2021 18:49

There's not a best sport - let him try out a few. Has he shown interest in kicking a ball?

Mine used to do gymnastics, rugby and football. He has stuck with footie.

dementedpixie · 19/09/2021 18:50

And dont forget swimming
Think that's unisex too though

crumblebug · 19/09/2021 18:51

'Best sport for boys' Grin

MsAwesomeDragon · 19/09/2021 18:54

See what he fancies. If he doesn't know what they are, watch some videos together so he can see what they're about. At 4 he's got loads of time to try a few out and stop if he doesn't enjoy them.

I would suggest swimming lessons though, as that could save his life if he ever falls into a pond/river/pool/etc

PeonyTime · 19/09/2021 18:55

The one that the individual child enjoys.
Rugby will be non-contact at that age (tag rugby).

FlowersinJune · 19/09/2021 18:55

No such thing as a good sport for “boys”. I have both genders and my daughter loves football, my son Ioves dancing.

4 is a funny age. Ofsted requirements change significantly for 4-5 (bigger ratios). So many clubs won’t take kids to they are 5.

Swimming is a good all year round sport and life skill. So I would always recommend lessons in this (even if they aren’t particularly good it’s useful).

Otherwise I’d look at what they like doing: dancing, kicking balls, running round and also what fits in with your schedule.

NerrSnerr · 19/09/2021 18:55

What does he show interest in. Has he seen any sports on telly he wants to do. My 4 year old boy does swimming and we're looking for a dance class for him as he has rhythm and loves to dance. My 7 year old girl does swimming and gymnastics as she loves to climb bars and swing on them!

MissConductUS · 19/09/2021 18:58

If it's an option, see if you can get him to try rowing. Both of my kids were on the crew team and are still doing it at uni. They love it and it's a very safe team sport.

MissConductUS · 19/09/2021 18:59

Sorry, I've just seen that he's way too young for crew. Swimming perhaps.

samwitwicky · 19/09/2021 19:02

What does he like? What does he do when he's outdoors?

We put our DS into a football class (Diddykicks) when he was 4.

What about swimming lessons?

Rather than just sports could you take him to faster sessions for a few different things? Maybe a couple of sports, something creative (drama? Art?) and something totally different (music?) to see what he takes to

samwitwicky · 19/09/2021 19:03

Taster*

edgeware · 19/09/2021 19:05

I think the posters being snippy about ‘sports for boys’ are being disingenuous; whether we like it or not boys are treated differently to girls in society and need parenting differently to girls. Personally I have a nearly 4 year old and am thinking about a martial art because from my own experience they tend to be very good for discipline and self respect.

RandomUsernameHere · 19/09/2021 19:21

At that age I'd go for a multi-sports class

PersonaNonGarter · 19/09/2021 19:25

Football - it can be played with anyone anywhere.

Swimming - even if he never competes it is great to be a confident swimmer.

Tennis - again this is a great Sport-for-Life and brilliant for playing with all sorts of people.

Not rugby. Not a sport for life, a sport for injuries.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 19/09/2021 19:33

I'd try to encourage a child towards something I was comfortable sitting at for hours on end. If you aren't one for standing on muddy sidelines throughout winter sleet, snow and the risk of other parents getting into punchups over how their Jack was tackled by the others' Jamie, football and rugby would be off my list, as would swimming if the smell of Chlorine made me nauseous. But if I hated being inside on beautiful days and didn't mind it being cold and wet sometimes, I'd encourage riding, climbing or running/athletics over gymnastics, for example.

After all, whilst his interest is important, it does boil down to you to facilitate it - might as well make it less than bloody awful for you.

HarrisMcCoo · 19/09/2021 19:34

Judo is great for boys and girls. Teaches self discipline. Have three children who practice judo.

DominicRaabsTravelAgent · 19/09/2021 19:34

If he's in Reception, I'd stick to just swimming lessons for the first two terms, they can get so tired when they're adjusting to school.

Like others have said, try him with different sports. The best sport for any child is the one they want to do.

Next Summer, try him with AllStars Cricket. The Children usually love it and the emphasis is on having fun.

CaptainMyCaptain · 19/09/2021 19:35

@LookMawAPossum

I can’t think of a single sport where you need a penis.
This. Maybe he'll like ballet.
KittenKong · 19/09/2021 19:35

We always did swimming, tennis, footie and a martial art for DS when he was little. He also enjoyed hockey and table tennis. Not sure if any of these are particularly ‘boys’ sports (especially at 4!). You couldn’t pay him to play cricket or rugby.

HarrisMcCoo · 19/09/2021 19:37

My youngest is 4 and loves gymnastics class.

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