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Tips for an unwelcoming baby group?!

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theroux21 · 10/06/2021 18:48

Myself and my 5 month old have been attending a local baby and toddler group every week for the past month and a half. The first session was amazing and I was really looking forward to going back. There’s only a handful of us with babies so we formed a little group and it was going really well. To cut a long story short, I found out on one of the sessions they’d stayed behind, exchanged numbers, made a groupchat and have been meeting up with the babies since. I’m not sure what’s happened but over the past few sessions they’ve made it perfectly clear they’re happier without my company. I’ve tried my best to involve myself in conversations and encourage our babies to play but get ignored. I get a lot of comments about my choices as a parent (for example he’s the only baby with a dummy and I’ve just started to give him a spoonful of baby rice in the evenings) I’m seriously dreading the session tomorrow. I’ve looked into other groups but they’re all full from the waiting lists during Covid and I am desperate for him to socialise with other babies.

Any tips on how to get through the 2 hour session tomorrow?!

Thank you!!

(I’m quite a bit younger than the other mums by around nine years (I’m 21) and had quite a few comments about my age so not sure if this has played apart in the change of tone all of a sudden)

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kowari · 11/06/2021 22:20

Find another group or chat to the toddler mums instead.

I attended a child health centre group for mothers with babies born in the same month. There were a number of organised sessions with a health visitor then the group met up socially, without me. I was 22 and they were around 30, I wore DS in a stretchy wrap when they all had prams and I was the only one breastfeeding on demand, so I didn't fit in. I found a group where I did fit, the mums were in their thirties again but they were lovely and welcoming.

MostlyNormalSometimesOdd · 11/06/2021 23:05

They sound like a bunch of cows, I wouldn't want anything to do with them.

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