Anyone just decide to hand their kids over to their ex husband and his partner and just disappearing and starting again where no one can find me ? I’ve been considering it strongly, and it’s not because I can’t cope because I can and love being a mum to my kids but I can’t compete to them. He left me for her, blamed every thing on me then he had kids with her and she works and he works, they both have cars, they can take kids anywhere they want, have family days out, buy them great stuff and I have nothing, no job ( I was a sahm when he left me) no partner, don’t drive no car, no money. What’s the point in me being a mum to my kids after his partner has played MY ROLE to them, I’ll be nothing but a babysitter for when they are at work, and they can give them more than I can through no fault of my own. She hates me, has a massive grudge against me so she will use the kids to torture me mentally so may as well hand over the kid’s to her and say good luck to her. No wonder some birth mums have nothing to do with their kids because they are forced to walk Away when step mum takes over. I’m sick of having their better status rubbed in my face. Might as well just end my life whilst I’m at it