Hi everyone,
Never been on here before but just wanted to reach out to see if there’s anyone in the same boat. I’m on baby number 2 (4weeks old) and have a 2.5 year old also. Following birth of first DD, I was admitted to a mother and baby unit for postnatal depression and anxiety. Following birth of my second DD, I did okay for the first week or so but have really taken a downward turn and my PND is rearing its horrible head. Doesn’t help that my baby has suspected CMPI and reflux so she has been sooooo unsettled since birth, she also had tongue tie. On top of this, my toddler (like all of them!) is really challenging - I’m really trying to pay her attention and be patient as I know it’s a huge transition for her but I’m honestly struggling SO much, I cry a lot and it seems like everyone else is holding it together. My husband had to come home from work yday because I had a breakdown. I also have terrible mastitis which isn’t helping but would just love to hear from other mamas who’ve got through this period. Please tell me it gets better x