Tonight she's late, so I phone the school to find out if everythings ok (worried sick in case she's lying in a ditch somewhere), they tell me the bus is running late so I think all is fine.
Twenty minutes later I get a call from the school to ask why I havent picked her up I explained I didnt know I had to and said I would be straight over.
Anyway she gets in the car and I said 'dd if you want me to pick you up to have to tell me' she says she did (she didnt), she told me netball trials were yesterday then phoned to say they werent on and came home on the bus, nothing more said and now she swears blind she said they were today. Then she carries on crying and I ask why 'because everybody in my life has died, all my auties and uncles' now I would like to point out here that she is talking about exp's brother who dies before she was born, and my siblings who dies before I was born ffs. Then she complains that shes been bullied in the past (at primary) and how horrible her life is!!!!
It makes me soo angry, she gets 2 holidays a year, goes to guides and private drama school, she is in a excellent school, lives in a nice area.
Why is she like this, its just a long list of things (this morning she chose to stay in bed when dh offered to help her with homework she didnt make the effort to do last night despite being asked several times)
I'm exhausted I cant cope with it anymore, could quite happily walk out the door and never come back