Since my partner and I broke up (he walked out never to be seen again 6 months ago) my in-laws and I have remained close. I see them fortnightly with DS (16months). I thought we got along. I thought things were fine. I wanted to maintain a strong relationship with them for my son's sake.
Now, all of a sudden they're being really frosty. It started a couple of months ago. EX-FIL was snappy with me during our meet up and everytime I spoke I was cut off, spoken over, or literally ignored. I just ended up sitting in silence trying my hardest not to cry. This has happened during every meet up since.
We're due to meet up on this coming weekend, so I messaged with a suggestion of what to do, (pumpkin picking, lunch out, and time at the petting farm for my son). They agreed and very bluntly gave me a time to drop my son off. So, I'm assuming that I'm not even invited this time. I work, so my weekend time with DS is sacred to me and he likes having me around when we see family.
I don't know what I've done! I try my hardest with them. Perhaps my ex is filling their heads with rubbish? Or perhaps they've just never liked me. I don't know. I'm just really hurting over this.
How shall I handle this? What would you do? Am I overreacting?