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How to explain to 7yo that Santa needs her to contribute to her present?

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av99 · 23/11/2018 16:30

Our 7yo has asked for a musical instrument for Christmas to replace the one she has, which she has now outgrown. She has lessons, practises hard, and we think this is a good idea.

The thing is that it will cost £300 (we've researched it, and this is the best option musically), and our budget would only be £100 for a main present from Father Christmas. However, she has managed to save £100 of her own from generous relatives over the years, and we could also sell the instrument she already has after Christmas, perhaps for £100 too, leaving "Santa" with just £100 to pay. Perfect!

But she thinks that she can just ask Father Christmas for the new instrument as he can afford anything, and keep her £100 for herself. We want to keep the magic of Santa alive, but how do we explain that sometimes, for very expensive presents, Father Christmas welcomes some financial help, as he has lots of children to buy for? And how do we explain how we get the money to him? We know that this isn't the worst problem in the world, and we're lucky to be able to afford a nice present at all, but has anyone else come across this, and how did they manage to solve it please? (Her birthday isn't until September, so we can't wait till then.)

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Danglingmod · 24/11/2018 09:58

This is why, growing up, FC was only ever a glorified postman and ALL of gifts were from the person who bought them. It's also what I've done with ds. I never realised until I was over 40 and on mn that I heard of presents being labelled as from FC.

BehemothPullsThePeasantsPlough · 24/11/2018 09:59

Santa brings stockings. Good stockings with paperbacks/cheap DVDs/small Lego kits but just stockings. Everything else is attributed. Much easier.

LynetteScavo · 24/11/2018 10:03

You want to keep the magic of Santa alive? What if she asked for a £500 gift, or a £1000 one?

This is why Father Christmas only fills stockings in this house. Main presents are from us.

I'd buy her something else for Christmas, and explain she needs to contribute towards the instrument, sell her old one and pay the rest yourself.

It'll only cost you a bit more, depending on what else she'd like from Santa.

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ShovingLeopard · 24/11/2018 10:09

I think a musical instrument is already a bit too earnest a 'present' for Christmas, at 7 years old. Are you sure she really wants it, over and above other stuff? Or is it you that thinks she needs it?

I don't think you can say Santa can take her money. Get something else for Christmas, and then get the instrument at some point next year when you have had a chance to save up. You could possibly do the taking her savings then. Don't tie it to Christmas, though.

Inkspellme · 24/11/2018 10:15

I agree with not tieing the £100 savings going on the instrument for Christmas. Let Santa bring a suitable toy and then start saving the money you need for the new instrument.

Perhaps involve her in this fundraising - do a car boot sale together to help raise money.

Desmondo2016 · 24/11/2018 10:30

Tbh at that age she doesnt really want the instrument as her main Christmas present, surely! Sell the instrument shes outgrown, buy her a second hand bigger one and give the child a normal stocking of toys from Santa! And let her keep her £100!

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