Ideas for adventures with a toddler

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DS is two and a half, and we don’t have family nearby. He’s in nursery three days a week while I’m at work, but I struggle sometimes to fill the days productively when he’s at home. He’s not good at playing on his own, and he’s not really into toys - he mainly loves to be out and about. Does anyone have any ideas for where they take their toddler that isn’t soft play or similar?

Playgroups, library singing and storytime, long balance bike ride to a cafe and back, toddler trampoline session, swimming, visit Pets at Home...all easier if you can get someone with another 2 year old to accompany you.

Join the national trust- so many farms and playgrounds, events, castles and beaches to explore! swimming, sweaty mama classes, buggy fit etc, church playgroups, sure start centres

Pigeon unfortunately we live in an area with very few National Trust properties which is a shame!

Do you like groups? Toy libraries/dancing/gym/swimming are fab ways to spend time if you do. Swimming is especially good for tiring them out. Country parks ate always good, giving them a bucket to collect random treasures in, time spent in the fresh air always makes me feel a million times better too.

Get out with paintbrush and water to paint the trees. Do bark rubbing with paper and crayon. Collect something like conkers or count snails. Make maps and go on treasure hunts. Go out looking for ghosts at dusk with a torch. Make a dinosaur garden with mud, leaves and plastic dinosaurs in an old baking tray. Get a magnifying glass or bug cup and go out with that. Go bird watching. The list is endless really!
Any local museums? Or save up junk like toilets rolls etc and make space rockets?

We did toddler groups and swimming pool regularly.
Also the park with a friend so I had another adult to take my mind off the cold in winter! We stayed so much longer with company.

Some random things:

Drawing a picture for a friend/ relative. Put it in a letter and head off on a walk to the post box.

I also did an open top bus tour a couple of times in different towns we lived in. Tbh just going on any short bus ride. Especially upstairs on a double decker.

The library was a frequent trip. And any free museums cos they wont be interested in looking at exhibits for long!

Christmas shop windows when the time comes if you have any nearby.

DD likes the garden centre (looking at plants, fish etc and having lunch), going on a train, walking to the park (especially if there are puddles!), swimming, farm, hide and seek in the garden, drawing chalks on the patio.

There are so many great ideas on here, I had to comment just to keep it in a list I could revert back to.

We are members of a nearby farm attraction. Mine always enjoyed outings to library when weather cold. There are often different toddler classes - did a baby ballet and rugby tots.

Feed the ducks
Farm park
Nearest railway station to watch the trains
Local library

Where abouts are you?

Some good ideas here. I am going to paint trees with my toddler!

I second going for little trips on the bus- my two year old loves the bus. We go to playground and cafes in neighbouring towns. We often end up at the library. There's a pier near us which she loves to run on.

If you have a friend with a gently dog see if they can join you for a walk- my toddler absolutely adores holding the lead (dog is super chill and gentle).

Pond-dipping is fun.
Leaf scrunching
Puddle jumping
Visit ALL the local play parks - you'll be surprised how many there actually are hidden away round the back of little housing estates etc. Ask on local FB groups for recommendations
Play Pooh sticks

DD is younger at 18m but some of the things she enjoys:

Bike rides (we have a trailer and load up the car and drive to a traffic-free cycle path).

Our local nature reserve is great for kids with various gardens, natural play areas, huts etc. to explore. She does also like looking at the lake and the birds.

Going to the woods and collecting leaves etc. in a bucket

Take a ball to a big green space and have a kick about.

Go to different playgrounds rather than always our nearest one.

Go for walks where DD gets to decide which way to go next.

Drawing in a birthday card then walking to the postbox and posting it.

DD also loves some of the household tasks, so she actively enjoys helping me hang the washing up, unpack the shopping etc.

Following! Great ideas.

My son just loves going out on the bus and train as an adventure.

When he's a bit older he might enjoy geocaching which is kind of a GPS treasure hunt wher you look for hidden boxes with a smart phone or hand held GPS. There might be kid friendly caches near you.

Most things are an adventure for a toddler though - everything is new!

My kids all started preschool 5 days per week at 3 but we're home with me til then, and in the last 6 months of "freedom" with each of them we did some special 1:1 adventures.

The most successful ones, looking back, revolved around trains With my youngest specifically, his favourite thing was to catch a train (at a quiet time, say 10am) to the nearest city, and then spend an hour exploring the main station including using lifts and escalators (again, a quiet time mid morning on a work day) and then have cake in a station cafe then catch the train home! Were rural so day to day he never sees so many people, or escalators or lifts or trains ... Wouldn't work if you live in a city and those are part of mundane every day life obviously.

Toddlers have different priorities to adults and that was dc3's absolute favourite thing to do at 2.5!

We also used to go on adventures to find new playgrounds or try out ones we'd seen on the way to other places. Didn't have to be fancy ones, just going and trying out other playgrounds was an adventure.

At the moment playing in the leaves with his wellies on is fun. As is finding conkers. Just generally running around the park with no agenda. Boring for you but fun for him. Watching any kind of running water even if its only a fountain. Walking along every low wall you find holding his hand or climbing a gate with you behind him. So trying out his strength in safety. Main idea is don't be in a hurry and let him explore everything he sees.

God there are some amazing ideas on here that are so simple! I'm definitely gonna try the train one, my DD will love it. Thanks! ❣️

There are some Forestry Commission woods near to us with a few marked mountain bike tracks. Following them along and looking for the orange marker spots is one of DSs favourite things. (there are very few mountain bikers on there and we always move out of the way when we see some). He uses his balance bike these days, which is even better.

Collecting conkers also v popular. And just charging around the playground - we do little tours of them all.

I agree about exploring everything at their own pace. Mine is 18 months and it amazes me the things that interest them. I only have to take him on a little walk around the village, even if there's nothing to see, everything is fascinating to them.

His current interest is man hole covers. He loves to crouch down and inspect them and the jump on them.

We do all of the above but DD particularly likes going to Morrisons because they have a mini trolley. Sometimes we go there just to buy a few items but by the time she ‘writes’ her shopping list, we wander round the shops, I persuaded that Granda does not want 3 of the same gardening magazines even though he loves his garden, we find the random products, smell the flowers and sat on (without money) everyone of those cars/tractors they have past the check out a good 90 minutes has past.

Blatant place marking for inspiration!

Haven’t read the replies but :
Outdoor colour hunt - especially this time of year! Go out for a walk with a list of colours and find things to match - red leaf, blue sky 😄 brown conker etc
Similar, scavenger hunt - list including things like ‘best stick you can find’, a robin, a duck, whatever
I also like to do theme days, not necessarily out and about but maybe a dinosaur theme day might be play with toy dinos, watch The Good Dinosaur, bake dinosaur shaped biscuits, read all the dinosaur books you have. Or apply that to whatever your kid is into.
Buy a book about Forest School, loads of good ideas
Park and playground any weather, just take a towel (for wiping swings and slides obvs)
Rock painting - haven’t done it myself but we sometimes stumble across painted rocks in parks etc so I think it’s A Thing