Not sure.
How about someone partnering me?
I have firm expectations with regard to behaviour (but acknowledge that they are children, whose role it is to push boundaries and misbehave).
I also sometimes lack consistency, through tiredness and lazyness, and general can't-be-arsedness.
I have been known to shout, and I do believe "because I say so" is acceptable, occasionally, when explanations have been ignored.
I feel uptight about my parenting, until I come on to MN, then realise that, actually, I'm fairly laidback, lol.
So... Who can I be matched with?