Sorry - went out
how many nappies do you need to start with?
It depends on what kind you have and how often you plan to wash - to wash every 3rd day (which I prefer) you need 16-20, you can drop the number by 4 or so if you want to do every other day.
are they shaped or do you just wrap them around in some artistic fashion?
Again - depends on the type - most are shaped like a cloth disposable, and you put a waterproof wrap on the outside.
do they come with intructions?
It depends where you buy from, most don't have instructions as such but a sort of quick how to guide if you mention that you are just starting out. They are normally easy enough to work out.
do they pin up or have velcro or those things they stick on bandages at the hospital?
Poppers, velcro or nappy nippas which work by grips and tension.
do you need different sizes?
Again - depends on the nappy. You get birth to potty ones (nippa fastening or popper - I find nippa ones get a more adjustable fit for newborns), or you get sized ones that you buy the next size up as baby grows - normally 2-3 sizes of sized ones needed.
do they stain?
Sunlight bleaches out most stains
if so can you get them in different colours?(to hide away any unsightly stains)
Yes - some nappies come coloured, or I sell them with an option to have them dyed for you.
what do you wash them with?
Non-bio - I use liquid fairy.
do they leak often?
No - much less than disposables.
do they smell more than disposable nappies?
To a non-cloth user, yes, to a cloth user disposables smell hideous. I guess its what you are used to.
are they expensive?
Anywhere from a couple of pound for flat terry squares to £15 for all in ones or fancy shaped nappies. The average nappy though costs slightly more than one pack of disposables... you will be buying more than 16-20 packs of disposables in baby's life, so you're laughin
im sorry, i just couldnt hold out until later
none of my friends have used washable nappies, they have all used disposable
oh, just one more!
when you're out and you have to change baby how do you make sure that everybody you walk past doesnt smell the putrid smell coming from out your bag?
There are various waterproof sealable bags to put them in, or if you aren't anti-using them, you can wrap them up in a nappy bag/carrier bag. I don't have smells around me when I am out