Single Mom Involved With Social Services

[SingleMamaa]

Hi
Wandering if anyone could help or give me some advise...
I’m a single mom to two boys, I have recently got into a new relationship after being single for sometime with a man who I have been friends with for 4/5 years.

He has a child to an ex partner who was very controlling and abusive and police had previously been involved with them, this is over6 years ago.

3/4 months into our relationship social services have knocked on our door out of the blue saying he poses a threat to my boys and has to leave the property for the night till they come back and speak to me the following day to carry out some assessments.

I have no issues with them carrying out what they need to but can they just come and tell him to leave? How long does he have to stay away for?
He is amazing with my boys not rude or abusive we are a very happy family, can someone please help?

TIA

I wouldnt worry about his welfare either, hes an adult and will survive. Your children rely on you for their protection though.

What's the update??

Speaking as someone who works closely with SS - don't let this man back in. I see so many cases like this. There are two sides to a story and you don't know how he was with his ex in truth, what has drove her to turn up at his parents? How do you know it wasn't him who was abusing her? Do you and your boys a favour, change the locks and end it.