Do I let exs gf meet my baby

[Paddlingducks]

I had a fling with a friend after my marriage broke down, I've been friends with him and is gf for years and they split up and the fling happened. I fell pregnant and he went back to his gf. He has been here for me all through the pregnancy and birth and has spent time with our son everyday since he was born but I'm not friends with her anymore. Long story short, I want him back, my other 3 dc love him. Baby is now 2weeks old and his ex wants to meet him. I don't want her to, aibu?

I feel sorry for this mans poor gf she was suppose to be your friend and the moment you split up you slept with her ex resulting in a baby. He didn't want the baby but has stood by you and helped you and supported you. Fact of the matter is he doesn't want to be with you and is back with his gf he has made his feelings perfectly clear by getting back with her fairly soon after. This wasn't a relationship you state it was a fling. There's no reason as the baby gets older he cannot have access in his own right and her be a part of that.

I'm afraid you'll have no choice in the matter. He can introduce him child to whom ever he wants.. really I think you need to let this go. He clearly wants to be with her instead of you and trying to use you child against him and her is pointless and wrong. It sounds like she is going to be in your babies life at some stAge