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New parent Christmas advide

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user1481242483 · 09/12/2016 00:47

Hi everyone,
Sorry if i've posted in the wrong place (please feel free to move the post admin), but i'm in need of some advice if possible please.

I lost my sister 5 months ago, and after a long and expensive custody battle between SS and her abusive ex (the children's father), i am now the sole custodian of my amazing niece (3 years) and nephew (14 years). I couldn't be happier, i've never had any children of my own as i'm unable to conceive so this is going to be a whole new experience for all of us.

With Christmas nearly here i was wondering if there are any charities that could help me. Due to all the stress of court, lawyers and social services, i've had to give up my job and i'm also having to stay at home for now as my niece has some minor learning difficulties (un-diagnosed for now, but she is being tested). This means i have very little money for presents until i can find another job which is a bit more flexible (Both niece and nephew will be going to school after the xmas term which helps).

Anyway, does anyone here know of any charities that could help me? I've only been able to get 2 presents for them both and i just want them to have a good Christmas despite the crappy year they've had. I've had a look online but all i can find is Salvation Army and there isn't one near me or charities in South Wales. Any links or directions as to where i can get help would be greatly appreciated.

Please don't judge the lack of money situation, i just couldn't have those kids in care or living with an abusive father.

Thank you x

LouMumsnet · 09/12/2016 19:32

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