couldnat care what other people feed their kids... i DO care what I feed my charges!
but any of my charges friends coems round for tea etc they get whatever i was planning to have regardless.... with the same rules as my charges... they can eat it (or have a good attempt) or starve...
if they dont eat it they have no pudding....
I always say "In X and Y's house the rule is ...... (we take off our shoes up stairs, we dont run inside, if we are hungry enough for pudding, then we will have eaten or 1st course)...
and while i wouldnt give them any thing too adventourouse, i wouldnt think twice about giving, any meat / chicken / with gravy / as casseroles etc, or something like lasagne, spag bol, fish pie, pasta bake etc etc
Do not give chicken nuggets or other similar processed crap to guests in the same way i wouldnt poison my own charges or myself with them either!
in terms of veg i will give ANY chld peas, sweet corn, carrots, broccolli, green beans, cuecumber, tomatoe... on the grounds most children eat them!
i save things like bean sprouts, mange tout, courgette, sporouts, swede, cabbage etc to when its just me and my charges tho!
and yes i have in the past not given a guest pudding cause of their refusal to eat the 1st course... while those who have eaten get pudding!