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Child missing mum hearting sent with love

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runkid · 03/09/2006 21:30

this is for a lady i have just spoken to her DS is missing and i want her to know that we are with her and will help and support as much as we can.She feels she cant cope i want her to know that you can get through this. so come on ladies lets show some support

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runkid · 03/09/2006 22:49

Hang in there Diva we are here for you.You can do it you only hurt so bad because you LOVE him so much

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Diva75 · 03/09/2006 22:51

He missed my birthday last weekend, nothing can make him come home!

I havent bothered with my birthday cards and presents either!

Diva75 · 03/09/2006 22:55

He doenst give anyone a chance to help him, he runs away from the police, he has a social work that he never sees. Never had a social worker at 15 when l had him, l do now for the past four months have had to rely on a few agencies for help with his behaviour.

I dont understand what has happened to our relationship, we dont have one anymore! We used to be very close and we went to church, now ............nothing!

makemineadouble · 03/09/2006 22:57

diva dont mean to pry...just need a clue? whats your story..ds background?? hey if its a long one bet mines longer xxxxxx

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runkid · 03/09/2006 23:00

I no the feeling Diva my dd has missed many occasions christmas, birthdays the lot but your life goes on you cant put everything on hold.I to used to be close to my dd she wont tell me whats bothering her she just tells me to get lost (not that politely though)

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losingdd · 03/09/2006 23:00

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Diva75 · 03/09/2006 23:05

My story is simple and straight forward, am a single parent to a 14yrs, have brought him up alone, not in a relationship, havent been with anyone for the past 6years! Not seeing anyone!

I work fulltime, and studying a uni for a degree, l used to go out with my son for meals and movies. Now we dont, l cooked every nite for my son, now l dont.

Whatelse do u want to know, Am not abusive or or voilent towards my son or anyone else, am very polite and love life, l go to the gym 4times a week, am just a normal 29year old woman!

makemineadouble · 03/09/2006 23:06

night LDD text wont you!!! thanx for help keep chin up we are the mothers x

makemineadouble · 03/09/2006 23:09

has he had new influence apart from you ? school...new friends...family suddenly getting involved

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runkid · 03/09/2006 23:10

i think you need to get hold of his social worker and find out what she is bloody doing ring the out of hours team and tell them what is going on the number is 01332717164

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runkid · 03/09/2006 23:31

my dd hasnt come home tonight Diva but i am very used to it unfortunately nothing i can do but keep battling on

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runkid · 03/09/2006 23:46

i will catch up with you tomorrow Diva thinking about you xxx

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Diva75 · 03/09/2006 23:48

My family is still the same way as it was since he was born!

New friends, oh yes deffinately older than him most are.........but they go home every nitte, he doesnt.

and they dont understand why he wont come home!

Social services will pas the message in the morning to the social worker involved.

Not much help there!

Am sure she will come home dear, she understands better than my son l think, she stays home now than my son! Will keep u in my prayers!

Good nite all thanks for your help, will go and make my finaly round in the streets before l go to bed.

Thanks

Diva75 · 03/09/2006 23:49

Thanks Runkid, speak tomorrow, will keep u in my prayers too. xxx

makemineadouble · 03/09/2006 23:59

Diva please know we're here feel utterly useless!!!!! will do novena (catholic thing) dont know what else to do will keep checking in xxxxxxx

unicorn · 04/09/2006 00:06

I don't know if I can help anyone in anyway but I write (as do a million others here!)so plse cat me if you think it may be in any way useful.

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runkid · 04/09/2006 00:11

thanx unicorn thats really great

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fistfullofnappies · 04/09/2006 00:25

Diva, your ds sounds like somebody I know, who used to do exactly the same sort of thing as a teenager. Of course, his mother was very worried too. He grew out of it after a couple of years (got a job!), and fortunately he hadnt come to any harm. It seems to be a rite of passage for some boys, to survive on their own, not connected with drugs or owt like that.
Hope he comes back home soon.

TipTap · 04/09/2006 00:43

thinking of you diva

theUrbanDryad · 04/09/2006 12:31

hey diva, just thought i would quickly look in...hun i can't even imagine what you are going through at the moment. you are in my thoughts. xxx

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runkid · 04/09/2006 18:52

Diva is there any news and how are you today

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Diva75 · 04/09/2006 18:55

No news am afriad at the moment! Am tired and worried!

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runkid · 04/09/2006 18:59

Did social services get in touch what are they going to do!!!

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MoreTeaAnyone · 04/09/2006 19:05

Still praying that all will be well. God Bless. MTA.

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