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The Truth About Videogames

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makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 10:02

To all parents out there here's the kicker. Videogames are like, comic books, movies, TV shows and all other things it depends on the person some people are addicted to it like other things there are people who occasionally eat fast food and there are some people who eat 2 hoagies at least. There are always people taking things to extremes and it is your child's choice whether they want to do something or not you can't force yourself down their throats otherwise your comic books and movies may disappear without inspiration from other sources. And if your wondering if videogames cause violence here's the thing millions of people play videogames media only picks out a handful of people it depends on your psychotic state and if you think games should be banned don't ask for big brother to help it is fine if you don't like videogames so you might as well get a computer they will get a handful of free games and there are also many applications other than videogames. And there is no concrete evidence that it causes violence. Make your child get inside his or her classroom put their ds or other portable console in their desk or give it to the teacher and tell the him or her to get out for their free time. If you hate the idea of them losing games here's the solution get them a flash cart it is legal game retailers don't like it because you can download games onto them for free (plastic and wiring too costly) you can also download movies and music on some. Also if you don't like noise get them ear plugs or headphones. So if all your kids have the same game and have a ds (some games allow download play but that usually have limited features so its better to get two games other than one the two ds thing is also mandatory) they can play multiplayer also some games have blowing and moving the game so there is stuff for movement parents too.Also if you want your child to stay fit inside I recommend the kinect, wii or playstation move they are stationary consoles but you can ask the teacher to set it up unless you get the wii that thing is easy to set up with a TV and is quick to put down and pick up. Also if you like touching things I'd recommend a tablet or another stationary option the wii u it has tons of exclusives such as pikmin 3, The Wonderful 101 and others. The 3ds also has a lot to love you can turn of the 3d in parental controls and has newer games than the regular ds it costs a bit of money or you could get the newly announced 2ds and I would recommend pokemon x and y on it. The game has so many things to do and will keep your child happy. So if it is broken that's your fault for not reminding and here's the thing your parents so of course you have to help them remember and teach them how to not break stuff and teach them to be careful with their things.

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stargirl1701 · 28/09/2013 10:42

Maybe play fewer games and use the time to improve it.

makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 10:42

Also I would write on windows document but I am on the ipad.

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FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 10:43

Fair enough.

I was going to ask you what you were thinking to do when you left school. But you are 19. Are you at college, or looking for work?

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 10:44

Also I am currently studying and I am perfecting my grammar.

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FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 10:45

Have you had a lot of stick from your parents?

I could ask you questions endlessly really. I have boys who liked games,but also realised with some help from parents, that it should be done in conjuction with other things in life.

MurderOfGoths · 28/09/2013 10:45

How ever would we have coped without you here? Obviously no parents in the history of the world have ever played games/owned a console/understood computers. Thank you so much, how can we ever repay you?

FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 10:46

studying what though?

HowardTJMoon · 28/09/2013 10:46

If you hate the idea of them losing games here's the solution get them a flash cart it is legal game retailers don't like it because you can download games onto them for free (plastic and wiring too costly) you can also download movies and music on some.

You sure about flash carts being legal? This suggests otherwise. Games retailers, and gaming software houses, and gaming system manufacturers, and copyright law, don't like them because they facilitate the pirating of games.

makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 10:48

Currently writing is a major and community second.

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FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 10:49

I could sit here and talk to you all day. You have some similarities and things in common with my boys.
But I have to go and do things so can only pop in and out.
Nice to meet you by the way.

I would like to warn you that you may get eaten alive on here!

We are your worse nightmare, a whole bunch of.......parents!

HowardTJMoon · 28/09/2013 10:50

Well most movies now are based on games what's your favourite comic or movie.

Sure. If I look at the stuff that's on at our local cinema I see, ooh, absolutely zero movies that are based on games.

Not to mention that the movies that have been based on games are almost always absolutely rubbish. Eg, Super Mario Bros, Mortal Kombat, Tomb Raider, Doom etc.

FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 10:50

Do you get out of your room or your house much?

I presume you are studying in your bedroom?

makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 10:51

Obviously I recommend you buy them first and put it on the r4.

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HowardTJMoon · 28/09/2013 10:52

Doesn't change the fact that simply selling an R4 cart in the UK is against the law. Marvel at how few R4 carts or similar are for sale on amazon.co.uk. There's a reason for that.

makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 10:55

Also have you looked at the directors of those films of course not otherwise you wouldn't have posted that. I am currently on my ipad outside on a park bench near my flat.

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makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 10:56

I was using the amazon us for example.

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MurderOfGoths · 28/09/2013 11:00

If you are going to patronise provide us with useful info, at least make it factual

R4

"a high court judge ruled that they were illegal. It is now no longer legal to import, advertise, or sell the R4 card in the UK"

makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 11:06

It is illegal in the uk I ain't in the uk.

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FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 11:07

Are you actually saying that you are addicted, and it is your choice?

Do you have guardians or parents?

Have you broken your games before and got unfairly punished you think?

FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 11:09

What drew you to Mumsnet?

MurderOfGoths · 28/09/2013 11:10

You're on a predominantly UK site

makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 11:14

I am not addicted I go out with my friends, if you mean they still care for me the answer is no if it is are they still alive then it is yes. No the thing is I was drawn to here because adults usually underestimate videogames I have not broken anything because of the way my parents taught me.

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makingparentsrealise · 28/09/2013 11:17

If you have two sons I would recommend you see their teacher if they could set things up for wet play. Also ask your child if he is often excluded from games because that could result in depression.

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FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 11:21

My two sons are in their twenties and work full time jobs.

FavoriteThings · 28/09/2013 11:27

ok. You remind me of someone I used to know.
I think you have not had the childhood you would have ideally liked. I dont think you work and goodness knows what you study. I dont know which country you are in, I guess America. I think you need to focus on getting a job. Just about any job is a good starting point. It gets people used to working, and dare I say it, gets people used to taking orders. If you want to pm me, you are most welcome. I have worked with people in your position.

With respect, parents can and do try and work out what is best for their children videogame wise. That is their job. I dont think you have much to be concerned about on that score.

Please look after yourself in life, and best wishes.