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Anyone have chickenpox in SW19/18

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Darlingdamsel · 04/08/2013 16:23

Hi there

I have a two year old and am starting full time work in a month. It would be lovely for him to get the chicken pox out of the way if anyone has it?

And yes I did look into the vaccine. There is too much mus-information as the UK authorities aren't advocating it. I don't feel comfortable wit the risks.

Thanks!

Stefanie

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Rooners · 05/08/2013 06:38

My children were both quite ill for a couple of days with it. It was pretty unpleasant.

I've thought about this a bit and tbh I can see some of the points people in favour of deliberate exposure are making - obviously it is better to have the illness when you're a child as I believe it is less likely that you'll be severely ill, than when you're an adult - is that correct?

Also most children do get it at some point, so in a sense it's bringing forward the inevitable

However. I think it's very counterintuitive and for that reason, I think it's a bad idea. Deliberate exposure to any illness is wrong, I think. Our instincts are there for a reason and avoiding illness is a very strong one.

I think going against that is very rarely a good idea. I'm not sure why, but that's how I feel about it. And knowing that my child was ill because I had deliberately exposed him, would be very uncomfortable for me - it was uncomfortable enough how I felt towards my friend, whose cavalier attitude in bringing her child to school and letting him run about and play in the playground, caused a huge outbreak which affected my child at a time when it was very inconvenient for us as a family.

She didn't know it would be a bad time,(is there ever a good time?) but she was an idiot to do it, exposing the entire class/school.

I just think deliberate exposure to illness is a very bad thing. If it's a vaccine and it prevents deadly or serious illness, with a very mild reaction to the vaccine, then I think that's worth doing usually. If it's the same illness with the same likelihood of severity then WTAF, basically.

When someone r eaches adulthood without catching it then I'd probably suggest the vaccine is a good idea, at that point.

peanutMD · 05/08/2013 06:44

I had chicken pox when I was 2.. and 7, 10 and 15 years old so just because you get it out of the way doesn't mean it won't occur again. I have no natural immunity to CP but was given the vaccine whilst pregnant as I work in childcare.

Its not a risk I would willingly take with my child, a friend lost her otherwise healthy to a complicatipn brought on by chicken pox and I can't imagine how hard it would be knowing you had deliberately infected your child in the first place (not that she did btw).

Tee2072 · 05/08/2013 06:47

No sign of the OP? So surprised. Hmm

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ihearttc · 05/08/2013 08:31

Does anyone know if you can just pay at your local GP surgery for the vaccine?

DS1 sailed through CP-had quite a few spots but wasn't ill as such but ended up in hospital 3 weeks later with suspected encephalitis. As it turned out it wasn't that at all but was the scariest moment of my life.

After seeing what it could do Im terrified of CP and there is no way in the world would I deliberately expose my child to something which could possibly kill or disable them for life.

DS2 is 2.5 and has so far avoided it but its only a matter of time before he gets it.

Its crazy because we have vaccines for measles etc in this country so why not CP when it can potentially be just as serious?

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