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How do I persuade dh that cloth nappies are good?!

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fastasleep · 28/04/2006 18:08

Help!

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expatinscotland · 28/04/2006 18:10

I'm going thru the same thing. We were given a drier, and b/c our council now offers a free trial pack, I thought they were at least worth a bash.

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fastasleep · 28/04/2006 18:21

DH thinks 12 quid's ok...

He says that with expressing, my job, looking after the kids and general other lentil weaving that I don't have time to wash them...

how long does it take you to rinse and wash your nappies per week do you reckon? (Without tumble drier)

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moono · 28/04/2006 18:22

With decent weather coming up then it prob wouldn't be too bad getting them dry on the line. How many will you get fa?

fastasleep · 28/04/2006 18:22

And he won't let me put them in the washing machine because he says our washing machine will stink....

Angry
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cdeh · 28/04/2006 18:27

Hi fastasleep,

I use cloth with my dd (20 months) and always have. It really doesn't take much time at all to deal with them - I have 16 nappies (MEOS) plus assorted inserts for extra boosting, and I wash every other day (she uses 4-5 a day on average, unless eating a lot of fruit!). I don't rinse at all - just chuck them in the bucket as they are, then chuck the whole lot in the machine when the bucket is full. I put them on to wash overnight, as have a "soak" program on the machine, then hang them out in the morning (usually just on a clothes horse in out bathroom).

Hope that helps a bit - good luck persuading!

Lio · 28/04/2006 18:29

Time to rinse say 1 min for a bad poo, less for a wee. Time taken to put in washing machine say 5 mins, time taken to hang out, take back in, fold back into right place say 15 mins twice a week. SO worth it, just google disposables to show him what an eco disaster they are. (Btw, am obviously not including the hours it takes for them to dry.)

fastasleep · 28/04/2006 18:29

Do your washing machines stink and will my DH believe you if you say no? Grin!!

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fastasleep · 28/04/2006 18:30

He's read up on them, that's the problem I'm having... GRR! I don't get why he won't say yes..herrrumph.

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Lio · 28/04/2006 18:32

??? Why would my washing machine smell? It's making them clean! Tell him to get over here and say what's really stopping him Wink

BonyM · 28/04/2006 18:35

Why on earth would your washing machine stink????

Mine certainly doesn't! (He's welcome to come round and smell it if he likes Grin).

BonyM · 28/04/2006 18:37

Tell him they're much cheaper than constantly buying disposables.

Also, I think disposables stink!

fastasleep · 28/04/2006 18:39

TBH our machine seems to stink whenever something vaguely yucky goes in

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doolaly · 28/04/2006 18:42

I have used terry nappies with all 3 of mne. Just stick liner & contents down the loo, nappies in the bucket. When there is a full load in the washer and on the line.

My washer does not smell neither does the bucket.
I think that disposables are horrible and they lie around in the (outside bin) for two weeks before the bin man comes.
I also believe that using terry napies helps when starting to train as they are more aware when they are wet.
My dh is tight so he was all for it!

fastasleep · 28/04/2006 18:45

Maybe I can persuade him if I use those paper liners... rather than the fleece ones I was goint to

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Olipop · 28/04/2006 18:46

Hi...been using reusables on my ds (now 13 wks) and they have been great...not a spot of nappy rash and only the odd leakage. Probably do a wash every other day and don't bother to rinse them out...stick them in a bucket with 5 drops of teatree oil and you don't notice a smell at all. I also use wet flannels to wipe him and bung them in the bucket too. Washing machine is non smelly too!

fastasleep · 28/04/2006 18:53

He said he's still not interested...hmm..

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expatinscotland · 28/04/2006 19:21

a bucket? do you need a special bucket, too? or solution to rinse - that sounds yucky and not good for the environment, tho?

our council will reimburse you for £50 worth of re-useable nappy gear. would this be enough to kit out a 5-month-old?

Laura032004 · 28/04/2006 19:32

I don't have a special bucket. One small mothercare 'nappy bin' with lid which I use until they've been rinsed clean, and then an open bucket/bin where they sit until they're washed. I don't think they smell, but maybe I'm used to it :o

I don't rinse in anything apart from cold water. Then they sit in the bucket (no rinse solution / napisan / essential oils) until they get washed with non-bio and vinegar. Good for environment as poo goes down toilet, and wipes are separated into the bin (instead of causing blockages five houses down!).

EPIS - depends on what you went for. Some councils will even refund the cost of 2nd hand nappies if you supply E-bay (or similar) details. Would this be an option you'd consider?

wideawake · 28/04/2006 19:33

It aint happening..
I may be at work all day but I still do 80 % of the nappy changing, don't have time to fck around and FA takes 4-5 days to empty a load of washing out of the machine never mind wash nappies. No chance on earth.

starlover · 28/04/2006 19:38
  1. It's cheaper (specially if you get one-size ones... can use them for both then)
  1. it's environmentally friendly
  1. it does NOT make your washing machine stink... it's a blimmin WASHING machine
  1. it takes no longer to change a cloth nappy than a disposable
  1. i wash every 2-3 days. I have a drier now, but didn't used to, and I also have no radiators or garden to hang them in and I got through winter fine!
starlover · 28/04/2006 19:39
  1. don't bother soaking, just put in a big bucket, or a bag until you're ready to wash them.
Pruni · 28/04/2006 19:39

I have a bucket, and a dropper bottle of tea-tree oil - a couple of drops kills the smell I find. Dry pail.
Machine doesn't smell. You do have to scrape some stickies off occasionally.
Can you borrow some for a week before shelling out? Make him have a go and be extra specially vigilant that nothing is left to fester.
BTW I never use a tumble dryer - eco disaster.

starlover · 28/04/2006 19:41

expat... you could always do it part time if you wanted to give it a go.
I don't think £50 would go far, unless you stuck to terry squares and basic wraps...

if you wanted more fancy nappies it'd certainly get you off to a good start though, and you could do what a lot of people do and use cloth at home but disposables when out and about