apart from work?
I have friends and family who are so opposite in child rearing that I really don't know what's normal anymore.
Some have gone for meals when baby is a couple of weeks old and then continue to have their weekend social life (whether it be as a couple or lads/girls nights out), go to the gym, shopping etc
Then there are others that have children heading towards their teens who I really don't think they've ever been for a meal at night without their kids, turn down invites where kids are not invited etc
I think we have a happy medium of the odd night out every couple of months - with a few on the bounce over the summer/Christmas period.
How much baby/child free time do you have?