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Like getting blood out of a stone (homework)

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WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 18/09/2011 13:11

It's so hard to get my DD (5) to do her homework, mainly reading.

It's driving me crazy. We only do it once or twice a week so it's not that much. The books she gets are challenging but not in a too hard way. Just in a concentrate and you'll learn something sort of way. Some of the words she already knows and some she can figure out by sounding out and others are new. So I don't think they are too hard.

Last year in reception I introduced a sticker chart which helped a bit.

Toady doing the homework I have been trying to get her to point at each of the words herself rather then me pointing and I have had to tell her 30 fecking times to do it. When she isn't pointing she loses track of where she is so adds in random words as she starts guessing or misses some out or reads the same one's twice.

I tell her over and over to stop fidgeting, to actually LOOK AT THE BOOK she is supposed to ber reading and not at the ceiling. To stop making silly noises and singing . . .

JUST LOOK AT THE FECKING BOOK AND TRY TO READ THE FECKING WORDS!

I had told her off for fidgeting and swinging about in her chair one too many times and have put her on the naughty step and told her that she'll have to sit there for 5 mins and to come straight back and do the homework, so that she will learn she can't get out of it by playing up.

I have been typing this in the 5 mins naughty step time.

Am I being harsh? Does everyone have this problem. What the feck can I do about it? It's like getting blood out of a stone!

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WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 22/09/2011 17:12

I know! I sound scared of them don't I!

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menopausemum · 22/09/2011 18:15

Whosegotmyeyebrows - sorry but you are making her hate reading. Lighten up, read her a story - she is only five and has had to sit still most of the day. She needs to run around and let off steam - sitting still uses all the muscles in your body to be controlled - very difficult for many young children. Why don't you go back to the school and talk to them about it. Most teachers would hate you to be forcing her in this way. I know you feel under pressure - this is the schools fault - five is much too young for this type of hot housing. I don't mean to make you feel bad - I know you just want the best for her but trust me - you are doing more harm than good.

SybilBeddows · 22/09/2011 18:32

I stopped making my Y1 do her reading, on the advice of MIL and a proportion of MNers on the thread I posted. (Some people thought I should be stricter and that letting her off doing it would send a bad message to her about giving up on stuff you don't want to do.)

A few weeks later she discovered Pippi Longstocking which she wanted to read herself.
So from 'school readings books are too haaaaard' we went to her puzzling over really quite tricky words and begging me to let her carry on, even though it was so slow we would be lucky if we got through a paragraph.

After that, of course, she realised she could race through the ORT, and we haven't looked back.

Motivation is all.

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WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 23/09/2011 09:14

menopausemum You clearly haven't read the rest of my posts. I think it's a good idea to at least read all posts from the OP (if you don't have time to read the whole thread) before posting.

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WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 23/09/2011 09:15

Sybil Will look up Pippi Longstocking.

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SybilBeddows · 23/09/2011 09:40

it wouldn't have to be Pippi Longstocking, it could happen with any book that engages them, I think.
But every house should have some Pippi Longstocking books; they will come in useful one day even if they don't help with this particular issue Smile

WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 23/09/2011 12:56

Ok will look them up as have no idea what they are . . .

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WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 23/09/2011 12:59

Oh! I see she's written some books using the same illustrator as Charlie and Lola. Have put them in my Wish List.

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