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In court for sexual abuse on a child

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MABS · 20/07/2005 19:38

Just sounding off really ladies. A close friend of mine has a 6yr old daughter who was serially sexually abused from the age of 3. Finally the case has come to court and I've been there this week. God, it's terrible !! I tell you,some men should be castrated at birth. The little girl did her evidence and was fab, but we know it could still go either way. Gonna be a very long week I think...

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joash · 22/07/2005 16:50

Still thinking about the little girls and your friend {{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}

MABS · 25/07/2005 17:59

jury been out for 4 hrs, hope for verdict tomorrow

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flamesparrow · 25/07/2005 18:03

Sod teh castrating... pouring acid over his bits is my answer

Sending huge huge hugs your way (and the family's)... I hope he gets what you all need him too.

mummyhill · 25/07/2005 19:57

Lethal injection would be better, have seen too many programs on the telly where US convicts have got a lighter scentence by agreeing to be castrated but admitted that they will still offend becasue they still have their hands. How anyone can do these things to poor innocent children is beyond me.

Hope you get the result you need. Much respect to you for helping and supporting the family as so many people turn a blind eye cause they don't have a clue how to deal with it.

MABS · 25/07/2005 20:06

thanks girls, won't lie and say isn't bloody hard though.

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MABS · 26/07/2005 18:42

GUILTY!!!!!!

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Hulababy · 26/07/2005 18:44

I am glad it is all over, and he got the verdict that he deserved.

Hausfrau · 26/07/2005 18:50

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anchovies · 26/07/2005 18:53

Exactly hausfrau, lets hope everyone knows what he's in there for and he gets a little bit of what he deserves.

MABS · 26/07/2005 18:56

He'll be in a special unit for sex offenders for about 18 months (he got 3 yrs) He still showed no emotion at all when he was sent down!

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jessicaandbumpsmummy · 26/07/2005 18:58

18 MONTHS? IS THAT ALL? OUTRAGEOUS....

MABS · 26/07/2005 19:00

he got 3 yrs but will prob serve 18 months. We really don't care tho' as it proves that the jury believed he was really guilty. He has been saying it was all rubbish all around town since he was first arrested in Jan 03, it's taken so long to get to court.

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champs · 26/07/2005 20:19

good on the little girl. hope she gets all the help she needs.

Blu · 26/07/2005 20:27

How is your friend and the little girl, Mabs? it must be a relief that he was sent down, but it must still hard for them. Your friend must be exhausted. Are they getting help?

MABS · 26/07/2005 21:32

they have a lot of help and the little girl is (outwardly) doing so well bless her. My friend is struggling tho, whilst she is very relieved and feels vindicated, now it's all over I can say that it was her ex husband. Very very hard to come to terms with.....

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tiredemma · 26/07/2005 21:35

was it his daughter aswell??

unfortunatly peadophiles are kept well away from other criminals for thier own safety, very wrong in my view, should be fed to the lions and made to serve time like everyone else.

MABS · 26/07/2005 21:38

totally agree with you, let them suffer.....and yes , his daughter aswell - from the ages of 3- 5yrs.

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tiredemma · 26/07/2005 21:43

thats fucking outrageous, what a bastard.

sorry for my language, what on earth could posess a man to do that to his own child???

munz · 26/07/2005 21:47

agree girls - what's the point in fathering a child to do that? I only hope the little girl can peice together some form of a childhood now.

the por mother god only know's what she/the daughter went thru.

My vote would also be to put these men in with teh 'regular' prisioners. i'm sure he'll have a visit at soem point thou, althou that doesn't set things right.

MABS · 26/07/2005 21:50

oh yeah , he'll certainly be 'visited' in there, actually he's prob safer there than outside at the mo. There are some seriously heavy people around here who want to literally kill him. Oh well, he can think about/look forward to that while he's in there eh!? I still can't believe he really got convicted...

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munz · 26/07/2005 21:52

well it might not have been for very long (not long enough if u ask me - let the other's deal with him) but anyhow at least there's some things this juctice (sp) system gets right.

MABS · 26/07/2005 21:53

well said munz

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munz · 26/07/2005 21:55

sorry should have read mothers*

monica2 · 26/07/2005 22:05

Oh MABS just seen this glad the jury saw this man for the evil low life he is. Hope the little girl gets some good counselling to restart her life.

MABS · 26/07/2005 22:11

thanks Monica, she has a lot of support - both professional and family/friends. Hope to see you soon if poss.

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