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please help, i had children's social services round today

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Hther · 09/06/2009 20:47

to do an intial assessment, as my friends had been concerned. I'd been feeling low, because they'd of things they'd done and they were concerned I was suicidal so rang them last week. They came today, are going to ring school, HV etc and get back to me. Although a children's centre worker who had been supporting me said she hadn't heard from them but that she guessed they would want to, the sw said they had spoken to her. I got back to her again and she still said they hadn't spoken with her. Then SS got back to me again and said this worker had raised concerns herself, after my friends had.

I dont know what to do, SS said they dont know which way its going to go but they're a bit anxious tha i have 4 such young ones to cope with

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Hther · 18/06/2009 22:20

yes i was, slightly, i was very uspet about it but could have been much worse

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SolidGoldBrass · 19/06/2009 10:58

Hther: were the children assaulted too at the same time or were they there and saw or heard what happened? Because if they saw or heard something (even if it was only that they saw injuries to you) this may have had a bad effect on them and you may all need extra support. THis could be what it's all about.
DOn't feel you have to give details on here, obviously, and if I am on the wrong track I apologise.

Hther · 19/06/2009 11:29

they were asleep knew nothing about it

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Hther · 19/06/2009 14:32

its all over now, case closed

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Hther · 19/06/2009 16:07

thanks everyone for your support

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Snorbs · 19/06/2009 17:19

Oh, what excellent news - I'm really pleased for you!

Blu · 19/06/2009 18:34

Well, that's good, but Hther, are YOU ok?
Never mind what SS were interested in, are you safe? Do you need any help re what happened before?

'could have been much worse' doesn't mean it's OK, or that you couldn't do with some help to get over it, or make yourself safe.

Do you know where to go for help if you ever need it? (Women's Aid, and other agencies who can advise, and ALWAYS maintain your confidentiality?)

Good luck, anyway.

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