Would you be happy to let a son or daughter of yours join the armed forces?

[tigermoth]

My dh joined the navy when he was 16 partly as the result of an ultimatum issued by his father.

My son is 8 years. I just cannot imagine letting him join the navy in another 8 years time, even if he wanted to. And seeing pictures today of 18 year olds in chemical warfare gear... boys just 10 years older that my son. My husband says it's policy to put the youngsters in least danger, but I'm sure that's not much comfort to their parents.

If my son wanted to join the forces when he leaves school, I think I'd do all in my power to dissuade him. I just cannot get my head round the idea that you create a life, that child grows and then goes on to be trained in how to kill others. Is that naive of me? Would you encourage your son or daughter if they wanted to join the forces?

I have re-read this thread and I do not feel comfortable about what I have said, after my initial posting. My ranting was offensive and now I have had time to cool down I can see that and can't sleep knowing I have upset you all.
I am sorry Seahorse, hmb, soupdragon and anyone else I may have offended.
In my defence I can only say that I am so completly horrified by the images of the war I am seeing. I felt attacked by Seahorse and hit back in an inapropriate way, again I am sorry!
My prayers are with you and your families and I hope they return to you safely.

enchanted

Thanks for that posting - it had been on my mind that I had clearly upset you much more than intended - I guess feelings are running high which is to be expected in a time like this -

Instead of 'being glued to the computer waiting to have a go' I actually only log on sporadically and did a bit of a claire short this time! Also if you met me you'd find out that I am a big disappointment as 'an army officer's wife' (not good at that thing at all)- I have little contact with the army at all and none with other wives - only hmb on this site.

Enchanted, Thank you for haveng the strenght of personality for making your last post.

Soup dragon, you put it all beautifully.

Seahorse, I hope your Dh is well, and that you as well as can be expected.

Cyber hugs to all

If only making peace were as easy as this in the real world. (resigned little smile)

Hugs.