me Gemini and dh cancer,we as follows:
Gemini + Cancer
Out in the "real world," next door neighbors often don't fully understand each other's needs, then again maybe you two could find love with the sign next to each other. Remember, when you're involved with a Gemini, you're involved with a jack-of-all-trades, a whiz-kid, a trickster and a messenger. When you're involved with a Cancer, you're involved with a parent, a patriot, a nurse and a night-owl.
If you can give a Gemini good communication, social interchanges and a variety of life experience, then you have a better chance of getting their love and affection. If you can give a Cancer emotional commitment and security, a loving home and some care for children, you have a better chance of getting their love and affection.
At heart, Cancer is more emotional, while Gemini is more intellectual. Gemini is essentially articulate, versatile and adroit. Put another way, Gemini likes variety. Gemini is an idea person. On the other hand, Cancer is a good person who needs to deal with family and emotional issues. Cancer's hugs are world class and Cancer's snuggles are second to none. Cancer is naturally inclined to be touchy about some, but not all relatives and needs to work on the family tree and make some sense of it all.
At times, Cancer may feel like Gemini has not one, but at least two different personality sides. Gemini's mind naturally likes to go from subject to subject. Gemini has varied interests and like to keep up with what's going on in the world. Gemini can be the original "quick study" who grasps facts, concepts and ideas. On the other hand, Gemini can get bored easily and do not like things to drag along.
Cancer has moods that change about four times a day, every two and a half days, every month and every 18 or 19 years. Cancer needs to make the most of these cycles, and establish goals with corresponding deadlines. It is important for Gemini to be considerate of Cancer's changing moods.
Gemini needs open lines of communication. The best friends for Gemini are the ones who appreciate Gemini's sense of humor. Cancer is not necessarily the most direct individual. Security is something Cancer is always aware of. Usually it's a top priority. Cancer is definitely strong and protective of turf.