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Friend has put us in a rather awkward situation ... wwyd?

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ghosty · 05/10/2008 01:38

Yesterday we went to our friend's DD's 5th birthday party. We have known this family since we moved to Australia 18 months ago and we get on really well (same age kids etc). They are lovely, bit eccentric in a nice loony way, which I love.
For a long time she has been talking about all her other friends and "Oh, you must meet so and so, she's just lovely, you will get on like a house on fire" and "I can't wait for you to meet X and Y, he's from England too and you will love them" etc etc.
So yesterday, at the birthday party, she introduces me to 'Sue' (made up name) with a "This is Sue, do you remember I've told you about her, her husband is from England too etc etc" and so 'Sue' said, "Oh yes, I've been dying to meet you, I've heard all about you blah blah".
So Sue and I hit it off with lots of chats etc and she introduces me to her DH who seems lovely, we get cosy with my DH and share bottle of wine and all is a bundle of laughs. When we left we exchanged phone numbers and DH and I suggest that in a couple of weeks we will have a BBQ and invite them and our mutual friends over for a get together.
As I said goodbye to my friend and her DH I told them that was the plan and they reacted a bit strangely about it (faces falling and some, "Ah, yes, maybe, possibly" type stuff). I thought it odd but didn't think much more of it until this morning my friend rang up at 8.30am (on a Sunday ) to 'fill me in' on 'Sue' and her husband and that actually they have pretty much fallen out and I need to know that they won't be able to come to a BBQ with them . So I have stumbled on some politics and I hate politics!
I asked my friend why she invited 'Sue' and her DH to her DD's party and why did she introduce me if they are that bad ... she mumbled something about the fact they go a long way back and couldn't NOT invite them.
WWYD?
What will I do if 'Sue' rings me?
[pissed off emoticon]
Gah!

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snigger · 05/10/2008 12:15

Not Spartacus, Switzerland.

V. important, that bit

ghosty · 05/10/2008 12:17
Grin
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ghosty · 05/10/2008 12:18

tinkerbel ... is it an Australian thing do you think?

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Twiglett · 05/10/2008 12:19

you get together with Sue without mutual friends

their falling out is nowt to do with you Ghosty .. you're an adult .. make your own decisions

you might want to ask original friends if they'd mind if you saw them anyway .. they must have had a reason to be close anyway

ghosty · 05/10/2008 12:21

yes, twig, you are, as always, right.
"I am a big grown up spartacus switzerland"
[sunday night wino]

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Twiglett · 05/10/2008 12:41
ghosty · 05/10/2008 12:45

Anadin?
Rennie?
Alka Seltzer?
Hair of the Dog?

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ghosty · 05/10/2008 12:45

Fry up?

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egypt · 05/10/2008 12:56

invite both sets, tell them both that the other isn't going to be there, then leave them to it whilst you bugger off out down the off licence. when you get back they'll be best buds again

obv not

but might work and you would be a hero

HRHSaintMamazon · 05/10/2008 13:00

how silly.
surely if they can invite "sue" and her DH to their own home for a day then they could attend a freinds BBQ with them.

and surely if "sue" had realised they had fallen out then they would have not attended the girls party?

ooh it is all a bit odd.

egypt · 05/10/2008 13:02

good point hrh

your friend sounds about 5 yrs old

ghosty · 05/10/2008 13:07

Yes, I am beginning to feel the same. I have thought about it a lot today to be honest ... just pondering and the more I thought about it the more I am disappointed in my friend for ringing me up to dish the dirt on this lady ... it was gossipy and unnecessary. I really didn't need to know the details of their friendship and fall out.

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