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sweetkitty · 26/02/2005 17:06

One of my best friends had a baby on Thursday her third a girl by C section. She hasn't had the best of pregnancies had loads of bleeds, bad backache and diabetes. She was praying to hang on until 38 weeks so she could go to term, during the section they nicked the placenta and the baby lost a lot of blood resulting in trauma to some of her internal organs. They pur her on a respirator in SCBU to support her breathing and her condition was critical but stable yesterday. Today I had a text message from her hubby saying they had the baby christened and it's not looking good.

The thing is her first baby was an emergency c section due to a placental abruption at 33 weeks. She was told then her baby might not make it but he pulled through and is a lovely 8 year old now. Her second boy was also heading for an abruption but they got her in time although he has a condition affecting his immune system and has spent loads of time in hospital (he's 4 now and getting better).

On top of this she has had loads of troubles with her hubby and they two of them got back together and were delighted to be having this little girl.

I so so feel for her I'm too far away to go and see her I am in bits for her, I've got everyone I know praying for this little baby girl to pull through she's just got to. It's makes you realise how lucky we are sometimes.

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tillykins · 27/02/2005 20:14

I'm so very, very sorry

Newbarnsleygirl · 27/02/2005 20:16

Am in tears.

How sad.

Lots of hugs to you and the family.

dejags · 27/02/2005 20:17

Sweetkitty

my thoughts are with you and your friends tonight.

WideWebWitch · 27/02/2005 20:18

So sorry to read this.

Dahlia · 27/02/2005 20:36

I'm really sorry. Deepest sympathies. xx

bensmum3 · 27/02/2005 22:00

Deepest sympathy to you and this family tonight

scottsmummy · 27/02/2005 22:12

I am so sorry to read this , Deepest sympathy to your friends family and you.

JanH · 27/02/2005 22:16

It's so horrifying that a baby can be lost this way these days. Deepest sympathy to them and to you, sk. You will be a big help to her because you care so much about the loss of their daughter and are grieving too.

unicorn · 27/02/2005 22:17

how awful..
sympathies for all involved..

Answers are needed .. obviously when the time is right.

I'm sure you will be there to support your friend... she will need it.

I am so, so sorry.

Blu · 27/02/2005 22:18

This is unbearable.
I'm so sorry, Sweetkitty.

Levanna · 27/02/2005 22:29

SK, I was so sorry to read this. The poor little sweetheart. My heart goes out to her, her family and you.

sweetkitty · 27/02/2005 23:42

thanks for all your kind messages my friend phoned me and I let her just talk and talk about the baby and what had happened.

westcountrylass the birthday card is a great idea I think about how I would feel and would want people to acknowledge and celebrate that I had been touched by a special little life as well as offer me sympathies. I've seen photos of her in her incubator wired to the machines but I've also asked to see the ones after when she's at peace.

My friend is still in shock and is very calm about the whole thing one of the docs admitted that if they hadn't have waited 2 and a bit hours before taking the baby to the NICU it might have made the difference. There is definite neglect and I hope my friend gets some justice so the baby did not die in vain and this never happens to another baby. I don't think it's fully hit her yet all I can do is be there for her.

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WestCountryLass · 27/02/2005 23:55
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