When we separated 2 years back, I was going to divorce for unreasonable behaviour, but because we sorted all finances through mediation & also because I wanted to try & escape a nasty divorce, I decided to go for the two year separation.
That two years is up now, and on Tuesday I am going back to my solicitor to start the divorce process. I thought I should let ex H know, so I pre warned him last night. He didn't react that well really & said "I better not start getting nasty letters"
He thins I would be better doing it over the internet & also mentioned my parents not having to find out!! I said "My parents will of course be finding out!"
He shouldn't get nasty letters should he? I don't want anymore from him, I'm not going to get nasty about anything, just want things fialised.
I told him he wouldn't get horrible letters & he said "You don't know what solicitors are like - you don't know how they work!"