Size 14 but clothes getting tight , was a 10 when I got married, settled nicely into a 12 but put on weight after each of 3 DC - would love to go back to being a small 12 like in the dim disatnt past but always too tired not to eat badly.
I have friends who are larger than me but they are happy with their size/shape -
I think that is far more important, I'm always trying to squeeze into clothes which are far too smalland look/feel uncomfortable.