swearing at your kids

[rhubarby]

does anyone else swear at their kids i feel i am the only person in the world

rhubarby and Rhubarb, Honeybunny and Hunnybunnie, this is getting very confusing!

BTW welcome to Mumsnet.

Do you think that swearing helps at all?

I mean, don't you think that just exaggerates the problem? Swearing shows a lack of respect for your kids, surely you should be teaching them respect? After all, if they don't respect you, how do you expect them to respect you?

yes custy good point, i understand what you are saying but i still do it, i dont think its lack of respect more frustration and i know i am not on my own in that respect

So frustration leads you to swear at your kids? Have you never heard of not acting in anger? I bet your kids swear left right and centre now don't they? I'm sorry but that's just plain bad!

its do as i say not do as i do at home

and i know its not ideal but do normal people do it or is everyone superwoman on here all of a sudden?

Sorry, but aren't you meant to set an example to your kids?

oi custy dont come the high and mighty with me, ive seen you in some situations!

situations that are not a good example to children

Ok, name one! I've seen you too, blackmailing your own children! You come across as such a Miss GoodyTwoShoes but you forget that I know the truth! Virgin my ass!

lets not air our dirty laundry in public!lets face it you have stacks of it literally as well as not!

Oh come on then! I'm surprised your kids have made it this far you leech!

leech?

Yeah well everyone knows you copied from me at school. You only made it now because of me and don't deny it!

ok i admit it i did copy off you at school and thats why i failed miserably!

Look lemon-face, you are crap with your kids! Guess who dobbed you in to social services, yeah me! I've seen you screaming an' shouting, and that's just at your dog! I ain't gonna be your friend no more - you is too working class for me you slag!

working class how can you call me too working class - the mumsnet ambassador of the working classes? now they are not good enough for you?

well, at least I don't have to resort to swearing at my kids to get them to behave! My kids are naturally well-behaved because of the class of parenting they come from. Which is more than I can say for yours!

what class is that oh ambassador? still proud of being working class? we know how they treat their kids, dress their kids, speak to their kids

Yeah, they teach their kids that having a shell of a car in the front garden is a water feature! That the new telly really did fall off the back of a lorry. Yes we do all have to wear shell-suits and how come I'm so fat when all I eat is KFC, MacDonalds and Burger King? Why heck I think I'll sue!
And the best discipline for kids according to them? Smack the living daylights out of them. Isn't that right Rhuby?

i rarly smack i dont find the need for it, and it sound like you described yourself perfectly there custy

Yeah right, you don't smack, and the Pope is Muslim, ain't that right? Seems to me that you is been a bit tame on here of late. What, are you scared of confronting me or summat? C'mon then, I know what you're like! All talk and no balls you big wuss! You just can't hack it can you?

never seen you in a shell suit just tacky things from the market!