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Need advice Socials are against ex partner so are family but I want to be with home now I'm pregnant

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Butterflypink02 · 25/02/2025 08:30

Hi long story short socials Habe been in my family for the last 2 years be aise my ex husband had made up that I was in a DV relationship with my partner. My partner at the time has a colourful past and we have argued and police Habe been involved. At the time I hate him and end up doing statement against him. He hasn't been charged with Nothing but was put on bail that lasted 9 months as CPS were taking ages despite me complaining I didn't want this. Socials Habe been involved since and have done a risk assessment saying he can not be in a relationship with me or have Contact with my children from.my.ex husband. My ex husband has some his share of abuse and has taken the children out of school when or was agreed or was my day with the children.
Wind to last year socials were in agreement they were going to step down and everything is going good then an incident happened that I had no control over and my kids were present. I needed the relationship. Socials continues to call me a lier and put my children on co plan. This has now ended. And I have seen him on and off the past year. Socials Have made it clear that he is a risk. So anyways a few weeks ago we needed up having a night of S which has now turned into a positive pregnancy test ( we was trying for over a year and I had tests and we found it was him that couldnt get pregnant). So now I've found out I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. How will socials react? Are they allowed to stop contact of I tell them I want to resume?

HopeMumsnet · 25/02/2025 12:36

Hi there,
We have made several deletions on this thread where for reasons best known to themselves MNers have chosen to mock the OP's writing rather than deal with the substance of her posts.
We find this quite unacceptable, to be clear, and some on this thread should expect to be suspended.
Please bear in mind that some of our users are highly vulnerable and in difficult situations. Insulting and barracking such an OP is not only unlikely to help her in her current situation but also likely to make their children's situation even more grave by cutting her off from a site that offers valuable DV resources.
@Butterflypink02, we do think it might be an idea for you to have a read of these links, particularly our domestic violence webguide and relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
We wish you and your children the very best of luck and hope that you are able to get a clear perspective on where you stand. x

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