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What to expect for sentencing at court on Friday?

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Ladieunlucky · 23/09/2024 07:51

Im being sentenced this Friday at crown court. I was charged for fraud under false representation due to a manic episode where I stole money from employers. I have bi polar disorder and was un medicated at the time. I handed myself in when I realised what I did and I have lost all my friends and reputation, butonly what I deserve. This charge is because I was in a position of trust. I have seen a psychiatrist for pre sentencing report.

I’ve been advised the sentencing guidelines start at 3 years, reduced by a 3rd because of my early guilty plea and co operation. Mitigating factors are I have not offended before, early plea and co operation, previous good character, have a 15 year old who I have joint custody with. And also my mental illness.

I am prepared for a custodial sentence and just wondered what I can expect on the day in court, how long it takes as no there is no trial. And what to pack in my bag to bring to prison?

I understand this may be my fate and what I deserve and have never once said I’m not guilty. Please just kind comments as this time is very difficult x

OP posts:
Blondeshavemorefun · 27/11/2024 15:50

Ladieunlucky · 27/11/2024 15:49

Hi all I’m home! The best outcome I could of asked for.

Suspended sentence of 2 years, and electronic curfew with a tag for 4 months. Aswell as 10 rehabilitation days. The curfew is from the hours of 8pm-5am 5 days a week. With Tuesday and Wednesday no curfew. The judge decided this as Xmas eve and day, as well as New Year’s Eve are all Tuesday or weds so he said this is time to spend with my daughter. And the hours are to allow me to travel to work. The judge did rip me apart in there which is what I deserve, he said I’m not a good role model to my daughter which I know and hate myself for. But he also said looking at my other background, mental health and abuse from my childhood, he’s taken all of that into account but wasn’t going to air it in the court room. He said that my daughter is doing her GCSEs and I need to go and support her. He sent me to custody for an hour where I was put in a cell to wait. While he decided on the sentencing.

Im relieved and everything he said was fair and I just now want to try be the best mum I can be. Thank you all for you support you’ve been with me every step of the way 🩷 I’m astonished by all your kindness.

Oh @Ladieunlucky I am so happy for you as I'm sure all of mn are

You must be so relieved

murasaki · 27/11/2024 15:51

Thats a great result for you, you must be so relieved.

Pearl97 · 27/11/2024 15:52

Woo hoo! I’m not sure you will ever know how invested I am in your life!!!

murasaki · 27/11/2024 15:52

I still think the delays were atrocious.

Do you have to pay the money back?

IMustDoMoreExercise · 27/11/2024 15:53

So happy for you @Ladieunlucky

All the best for the future.xxx

Crazydonkeylady · 27/11/2024 15:57

I'm so happy to hear you got to come home x

Stormyweatheroutthere · 27/11/2024 16:00

Congratulations on your chance of a fresh start op.

You deserve one....

ThatsNotMyTeen · 27/11/2024 16:02

Great result x

WhatMe123 · 27/11/2024 16:03

Thank god op

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 27/11/2024 16:03

That sounds like the best result, @Ladieunlucky, and I wish you all the best in the future.

Itsamumslife2024 · 27/11/2024 16:03

Wonderful news op

BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 16:04

So glad to read this OP. Take a beat to recover from the stress, and then grab what's next with both hands. I hope you have a lovely Christmas.

AngelicKaty · 27/11/2024 16:04

Just delighted for you OP - as you say, the best possible outcome, but it seems like the judge was very fair in his dealings with you (and I wonder if his having you put in a cell for an hour while he considered your sentence was a deliberate ploy for you to know what it would feel like because this would be a shock to the system of anyone who's never experienced custody before). Whatever his reasoning and his strong words to you (rightly), he's given you a second chance whilst also punishing you, which seems like a good outcome for your victim and society as a whole, as well as you. I sincerely hope you have a wonderful Christmas with your DD and that your first-time offence proves to be your once-only-ever offence (I honestly think it will be because I don't think you would have done what you did unless you'd been in the grip of a manic episode). Very best of luck for the future, OP. 🤗

Delphiniumandlupins · 27/11/2024 16:07

I am surprisingly invested and very pleased by this outcome. I'm sure you will make the most of the chance you have been given and demonstrate to your daughter how to own up to your mistakes. Good luck for the future.

BeerForMyHorses · 27/11/2024 16:09

All the best for your future OP. I'm glad of the result. ❤️

Fernticket · 27/11/2024 16:09

So pleased to hear you are home OP. Wishing you all the best for a long and happy future with your daughter. Put the past behind you and move on.💐

spiderlight · 27/11/2024 16:13

So glad you're home!! Onwards and upwards now.

BrieHugger · 27/11/2024 16:15

I’ve been following this thread but don’t think I’ve posted before. Dunno if I’m just being hormonal or something but your update made my eyes water a lot.

Onwards and upwards @Ladieunlucky. Have you told your boss and is he still being supportive? Delighted you have a chance at a fresh start. Good luck with the next chapter of your life!

pantomanto · 27/11/2024 16:16

I am so pleased for you OP.

Bickybics · 27/11/2024 16:21

Wonderful. Hope you have a great Christmas and you get to keep your job, all such great news. Thrilled for you.

BronwenFrideswide · 27/11/2024 16:26

I am so relieved and pleased for you @Ladieunlucky .

Take care of yourself.

MyNameIsErinQuin · 27/11/2024 16:28

Great news, I’m very relieved for you!

Silvers11 · 27/11/2024 16:31

@Ladieunlucky I am so very, very happy for you. A fresh start and you can still go to your work and be able to spend time with your daughter. Have a really good Christmas. You can start 2025 with a clean start now.

agoodfriendofthethree · 27/11/2024 16:31

This is absolutely fantastic and I am so pleased for you OP!

salcombebabe · 27/11/2024 16:31

So pleased for you OP! I think you’ve very courageous posting here and everyone has been so kind and supportive. All the very best to you for your future

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