Was I unreasonable

[Justbeingmyselfagain]

My elderly Grandmother was rushed into Hospital she collapsed. It was her Birthday while in hospital, on her birthday I was going to visit with my 6 year old. But Mum invited us out so I chose to go with Mum. Rang and told Grandma I was spending day with my husband and son she was fine.
But mum put photos of us out with her and her new partner, Granny sent me a text and said she was very hurt that I had told her a lie, get on really well with both Grandma and Grandad they have always supported me, but I have told them I do not wish to see them ever again, she sent me a text saying she was back home and sorry she had over reacted and wished me well. Not answered her do you think I should

This must be some sort of weird reverse

No one can be that utterly ghastly

You told your grandparents that you don't ever want to see them again because you lied to them?

You couldn't be more unreasonable! You are the one who should be apologising to your grandmother.

I’m going to guess grandma is more than used to dealing with the op. Hence her placatory text. She knows the behaviour.

the only concerning thing here is the op has a child and behaves in this manner , she needs to ask on here what she should do as she doesn’t understand how poor her behaviour is, so it would be a safe bet, this isn’t the only example, and a child will witness it.

it’s behaviour that is immature and spiteful, overly dramatic, very selfish, and lacking in any form of empathy, and children learn from their parents. It’s a shame she isn’t able to break the cycle, and could be raising a child to behave the same, as her parents did.