I don't really get on with mine, I resent her for being mean with her money when dp ended up in hospital with heart trouble from over work (she easily could have given him a couple of grand to get him by).
I find her very difficult to have around because although she means well (most of the time) we are from very different worlds and backgrounds. She is casually offensive to me and that causes me stress. I adopt the smile, nod, ignore tactic and everything is usually ok though.
She stinks though, really quite badly of unwashed decaying flesh and cheap scent and I find that difficult too tbh