Generic thread for posting who's peeing you off atm

[MyManorIsWankered]

Enjoy.

Whatever can you mean??

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Nuffink

Dss (but that is most days and quite possibly irrational at this point)

Well. The horrible patronising teacher at my dd's school who ignored my letter excusing dd from the school dentist ( as we have a dental appointment on Monday with our usual dentist)
DD came home all freaked out as they hurt her.
Same teacher peed me off re sex education.

my mother

I feel very guilty because she is looking after me while I am ill with ME, and taking care of my children every day and helping, and this week it is even more invaluable because dh is away on a course and I would be really struggling

and I love her very much

but she is starting to do my nut in a bit

My DH for being so darned perfect - have had severe D&V for a couple of days and have just been lolling on the sofa with the laptop between trips to the loo. He has been patient, kind, understanding and helpful. When I got up this morning he'd made the packed lunches, got DS2 onto some unfinished H/W, found the school uniform etc. Then did the school run. Normally he does NOTHING around the house (SAHM/occasional work from home so not an issue) and I didn't actually think he was that capable. I feel redundant and ungrateful .

DS
I love him, he is so cute etc.etc

BUT

I do NOT WANT TO GET UP 3-4 times every single sodding night. he is nearly 11 months old FFS and he SLEPT BETTER AS A NEWBORN

aaah that is better

this thread is clearly for something else I've missed, but I enjoyed that, thanks Hunker!

DH - he's cooking his own dinner when he gets in from work at 10pm tonight - wants a Waitrose quality menu on a Morrisons budget - so if he doesn't want to eat what I cook he can either cook it himself, or sort something else out

DH - keeps messing up DS's bedtime by coming home late and (1) DS wants to stay up and see him and (2) then letting DS stay up to watch football. I wouldn't let him leave for work this morning till HE had managed to wake DS for school.

pmsl at mrsjohncusak

OH my gosh I'm 34 weeks pg and i hate EVERYONE!!

People peeing me off:

My colleagues at work - those above for being in denial that i am leaving in less than 2 wks, and the people who I manage for trying to make me feel guilty because my replacement doesn't start till 6 weeks after I've gone.

Virgin media, the only TV channel we can pick up is Dave+1 so in addition to them I hate everyone on Top Gear and Whose Line is it Anyways?

Myself, for not bringing myself to tell my mum, a former midwife who lives out of the country, that I'm planning on a homebirth because I know she'll think that's a silly idea, especially as her version of hospitals is over 20 yrs old.

DH's auntie who is frantically getting stuff for us off freecycle to the extent that his parents now have 3 carseats (we don't have a car) and bottles and steriliser (when I'm planning on bf). We've bought/obtained 2nd hand for everything so far but I'd really want a new carseat and I know its irrational but it feels like bad luck on my bf to have bottles ready, and again they are something I would want new.

The only person who isn't peeing me off is lovely DH. I set him up with a trick question yesterday "are you jealous of me finishing work soon?" and he answered correctly - "a little but I don't think I'd want to go though what you are".

PHEW thank you so much MyManorIsWankered I can resume normal sunny self hiding an irrational pg brain behind. And not have to post an AIBU which would have got me mullered.

my dh's employee, who is a big mean bully.
I could throttle him today.

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Gah, me I am completely pissing myself off atm.

arrgh.

my dh who last night accused me of being selfish because having spent all day looking after kids, taking dd to school, ds1 to playschool, picking up ds1, giving them lunch, cleaning house, meeting with hv, pick dd up from school, cooking dinner, washing up, bathing kids putting them to bed, ironing dh work clothes, spraying oil on dh motorbike chain and getting off to work. Spending most of the evening sorting paperwork for local toddler group we are setting up, I didn't want to work out when we can take his parents on holiday and send off photos to be developed.
Also ds1 who has asked me 16 times if nanny and grandad are coming over today.

DH. I had a really tough day yesterday, but kept on top of everything and remained cheerful throughout - then my wonderful husband fucked everything for me. How supportive
(have pmt and can't seem to let it go..)

still DH - as the only words he managed to utter this morning (as he was leaving!) were

"make sure you keep an eye on his (DS3's) cough - it doesn't sound too good".

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO you don't say - and of course being the one that does ALL the childcare in the week (bar the odd night feed which takes about 10 minutes) and the occasional quick cuddle for DS3 before he (DH) leaves for work - I wouldn't have any idea if my DC was unwell would I

BT- for screwing up my bill and not refunding me

British Gas- ditto

Tiscali- messed up my bill and didn't take the money by direct debit so I waited 40mins to pay by card

Tesco visa- for cancelling my card and ungrading me without telling me then not giving me a new card then accepting paymentsthat aren't mine.

SOdding publishing company whose payment to me is now at least 2 weeks late and counting (I thought I had learnt my lesson never TO WORK FOR THESE FUCKERS AGAIN) but despite having changed hands (OK allegedly) 3 times now, they are still incapable of paying on time or of being honest about when they are going to pay.

That bloke over there who keeps talking about his lads weekend in Krakow at the top of his voice in a vomitous, ear-splittingly broad Bristolian accent (no offence to Bristol people but fuckinell).

Sample sentence 'oh yeah, we went to Auschwitz for a day out, can't recommend it, was really borrrrrrrrring'

grrrr

Feckin Dumelm Mill

Ordered some made to measure curtians before Christmas (guaranteed to be ready by Christmas - pigs might fly) Material faulty twice - piss poor communication between workroom/store/customer.Finally picked them up on Sunday - hanging them today and they're bloody faulty. Poor workmanship where the two widths are sewn together exposing.

I'm fuming.

Breathe.

Can't even finish my sentences. 'exposing the selvedge!!'

Pretty much everybody but think that's normal at 35+ wks pg...
DD who keeps wandering around in a dream like state, going to do what I've asked her to do then when I go to see why she's taking so long she's sitting in her bedroom cutting snowflakes out of paper/ reading her teddies a story/ singing and dancing. Meanwhile we're late.
Dh who keeps working late and 4 hours away so i panic I'm going into labour and he will miss it. Plus he's constantly moaning about being poorly and having flu. Plus he insisted on having a big party for dd's 4th bday despite me being 36 wks pg by saying he would organise everything. He's done.....nothing and Ive done EVERYTHING. Apparently he'll provide the entertainment
Most of my family for never coming to visit us and expecting us to always go ther (400 miles). Yet that's totaly irrational because I know they're waiting until after the baby arrives and I don't want any immediate visitors and know I'm going to have to broach the subject.
2 people I saw today- one said she hardly recognised me because I'd 'filled out' so much and another who offered to reverse her car back out of the space she was in so I could get passt and into my car (there was space for 2 buses to get past [angry0. I'm pg, of course I'm big ffs.

I feel slightly better now thank you

A girl at work. She's a colleague but thinks she's a manager. She is soo bossy always telling everyone what to do and when to do it. She rubs everyone up way and then runs crying to the managers when someone says something back. The girl is deluded.