apart from the fox thing i dont think this is that bad(am vaguely worried that i have really low standards was previously unaware of!).
when the cat was tiny and not allowaed out i used to drop(not chuck) nappies in bags and (may never be able to speak on mn again) cat litter tray contents(in double bags) out of the kitchen window (if opened door cat/ds would try to escape) and then put them in the bin when i went out.
IS this really bad?!? (nervously awaiting responses)