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Waiting For Zombie To Rejoin Her Phalanx

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mummylin2495 · 28/05/2015 23:07

This is where we will wait for our leader to rejoin the DBF team !

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iklboo · 10/06/2015 07:12

Like your idea B3. I'm not a sailor, though.

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 10/06/2015 07:37

I get seasick so I'll fly, thanks.
but I'm going, it's so cold here the kids suggested I should put the heating on! And I almost did.

Allalonenow · 10/06/2015 07:53

Brilliant idea B3 !
I'm a sailor, well I've read all the Aubrey/Maturin books, so can hold my own in any quarter deck chatter Grin

Quite cold here too, but I've had the heating on so am not shivering.

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 10/06/2015 18:25

We'll only need to sail to Crete for supplies.

Maybe we can find a nice Cretan person with a boat and give them our shopping list and a sack of euros/drachmas!

I have assumed that you would all like to join me on the private plane that I will charter to get us all there in the first instance Grin
Pick up by chopper at your nearest heliport.

Hmm, maybe we need an advance party to build the tree houses.
Zing will obviously need a huuuuuuge one.

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 10/06/2015 19:01

like I'd bring the kids! Grin

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 10/06/2015 19:21
Shock

You can't leave them for 3 months.

Can you? Grin

I was hoping you'd all bring your kids so that they can swing on the ropes between us delivering ... ooh, groceries, factor 50, messages about what time we're meeting for cocktails.

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HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 10/06/2015 19:48

Thanks again everyone for your kind thoughts and words. I have gotten as far as buying a condolences card for the daughter but not been able to actually write anything yet. Partly becausse work has been really busy but mostly (if I'm honest) because I am shying away from it because I know it's going to be tough.

Now. On with other things:

I have access like the Mexican house thief to a friend's 4 bedroom stone house on the coast of Turkey in a little village near Bodrum. Completely unspoiled - only locals vacation there. It's paradise. Beautiful unspoiled views, beautiful pool. Let's go there.

IamtheZombie · 10/06/2015 19:53

Evening Phalanx.

((( Hearts ))) and ((( Mummy ))) Flowers Flowers Flowers

I've been taking it easy. I have managed one trip to Craven Arms. I have another planned for tomorrow morning. I'm a bit stronger every day but still have a long way to go.

Here is a summary of my hospital stay:

After feeling increasingly poorly over the last 10 days or so of April I finally rang the Oncology helpline on the 30th. An ambulance was dispatched and I was taken to the Royal Shrewsbury Hospital (RSH) where I was admitted to the Acute Medical Unit (AMU).

I was immediately started on IV antibiotics and IV fluids whilst various other tests were started. In all, it appears I received 8 litres of fluid over 2 days. I was also given an inhaler (Spiriva) although I didn’t realise that for a couple of days. I was diagnosed with pneumonia. I spent 2 days in AMU and was then transferred to Ward 23, the Oncology ward.

For the first few days on Ward 23 I was mobile. Treatment with the antibiotics continued. Blood and sputum cultures failed to identify the infection that was causing me to spike temperatures above 38C. The blood results did show that there was infection / inflammation lurking somewhere in my body.

One morning I woke up with oedema in just about every part of my body. I had a chest x-ray and an echocardiogram. These confirmed that I had fluid around my heart and lungs. Both feet and legs were very swollen as was my left arm. I had difficulty breathing and was put on oxygen.

Frankly the next couple of weeks are a bit of a blur. I was semi-delirious for part of the time. Every time they seemed to get on top of one of my problems, another one would kick off. My temperature would behave for several days and then spike again.

I had a couple of episodes of feeling that I was unable to breathe at all. That was very scary. I think it was one of those episodes that triggered atrial fibrillation and a heart rate in the 150s. I was started on Digoxin to slow the heart down.

Eventually someone decided to put me on Furosemide to eliminate the fluid. I was soon catheterised as the effort of getting out of bed and on to the commode was too much for me.

I also experienced a thankfully brief spell of pleurisy. That was painful!

Throughout all of this there were almost constant scans and other tests. Very, very slowly things began to improve.

I was finally discharged on 3 June. I came home on all the meds that had been started in hospital. I am awaiting various outpatient appointments. I see my oncologist on 18 June and have an echocardiogram and spirometry (Flow Volume Loop) appointment on 19 June. I’m still waiting for a cardiology appointment and an appointment at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Birmingham to assess if I’m still fit for the liver resection.

I’ve not made much mention of my cancer. My oncologist confirmed that one of the CT scans I had in hospital showed no change in the liver mets. However, because this is the second time I have been ill following a Kadcyla cycle, it is unlikely I will be able to continue with that. If I do, it will be at a reduced dosage. More likely is that my oncologist will pull something else out of her armoury.

Love and ZombieHugsâ„¢ to all.

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 10/06/2015 19:54

Let's all be Turkish house thieves

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BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 10/06/2015 19:57

But, but ... I want a tree house

And a Cretan Jesus in a Cabbage Boat

We will, of course send the plane back for Zombie and Zlad when we're all set up and running.

D'you think 4 bedrooms would be enough Hearts? I'm not sharing !

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 10/06/2015 19:58

oops x post with commander in chief, going back to read.

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 10/06/2015 19:59

Oh Zombie welcome back sweetheart (((((BIG HUGS)))))

What a SHIT time you have had. You poor thing. It sounds like we are lucky you are still with us, thank the lord. I've heard pleurisy is terribly painful too.

So glad you are home. So glad to see you regaining your strength. Rest as much as you can and be kind to yourself.

Flowers
HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 10/06/2015 20:00

BBB on reflection your plan does sound about a thousand percent more adventurous Grin

Wolfiefan · 10/06/2015 20:02

Thanks for the full and detailed update dearest Zombie. Ouch pleurisy! From what I've heard painful doesn't even begin to describe that.
Wishing you all the best for the Birmingham appointment. (Will you be ok to travel?) Hoping the next thing out of the armoury is much less unpleasant.

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 10/06/2015 20:19

Lovely to see you Zombie, what a bloody rollercoaster, I'm quite pleased to hear a lot of it is a blur.

More pleased to know you're at home and regaining strength.

FX for appt at QE, and positive assessment for the operation.

FlowersBearFlowers

PeaceOfWildThings · 10/06/2015 21:39

I really felt for you with the oedema. I had it pretty badly through 2 pregnancies (and for months after the second one). That was bad enough (and I nearly died) but nothing compared to what you went through.

So glad you're home now.

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 10/06/2015 22:11

Zombie that was a long post, thanks for taking the time.
Sounds even more horrendous than what we were aware of - so sorry you had such a shit & scary time.Thanks
So relieved you are continuing to improve.
fx for liver op to go ahead when you are ready.
Any ideas when ZombieLad is planning to visit you and for how long?

Really nice to hear from you. we missed you! x

iklboo · 10/06/2015 22:13

Oh my poor Zombie! It sounds like you had a bloody awful time. Sorry to hear of it all - and pleurisy as well!

Look after yourself now & start getting your strength back. (((((HUGS))))) to you.

magimedi · 10/06/2015 22:17

Can't say any more than the rest of the phalanx have, just so very pleased that you have come through this & are home again.

Take it easy & slowly & try to gain some strength.

BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 10/06/2015 22:24

I think Zombie said Zlad is coming in August, not sure how long for.

mummylin2495 · 10/06/2015 23:01

I think it's August too for Zlad, s visit.
Welcome back Zombie, it's great to see you posting again.
It seems that you have been through a very tough time, thank god for the medical staff that looked after you.
I hope that the hosp say they will still go ahead with the liver op, I will keep my fingers crossed for that.
I sure that you are still feeling quite fragile, but that is to be expected after all your different illnesses. But each day your strength will come back.
Take it easy and thankyou for the flowers x

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BewitchedBotheredandBewildered · 11/06/2015 18:41

Hope you've had a good day and your trip went well this morning Zombie.
Craven Arms? Sounds like a pub. Am I being dense?

Nice house to have at your disposal Hearts, fantastic position.

mummylin2495 · 12/06/2015 21:17

Hi Zombie, just checking in to see how you are. Hope Zombiecats weren't scared last night in the thunder storm. Think there is more due for us tonight.the world looks so much nicer when the sun is shining, rather than the dull day we have today.
Hope you aren't trying to do too much , but managing ok with cooking and suchlike.

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IamtheZombie · 14/06/2015 13:31

Hello Phalanx.

The timing for ZLad's visit is dependent on whether or not the liver op goes ahead and, if so, when.

Everyone thinks Craven Arms sounds like a pub, Bee.

We got rain but no thunderstorms, Mummy.

I continue to potter slowly about. I finally gave in and sent out a plea for help with cleaning the house and clearing the laundry mountain.

A friend showed up this morning and has taken the majority of the laundry to the Craven Arms laundrette.

Tomorrow another friend is arriving tomorrow afternoon and will spend a couple of days scrubbing the house.

I have a busy week. I see my GP tomorrow morning, my oncologist on Thursday afternoon and have an echo-cardiogram and lung function tests on Friday.

iklboo · 14/06/2015 14:39

Hello Zombie. Lovely to hear from you. Glad you're getting help around the house and are taking things easier yourself. Keep on taking things slower & getting stronger. Lots of luck for your appointments this week. Fingers crossed they all go well.

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